“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Ugly friends...

So pimp its scary

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2003
Messages
1,677
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Location
In the C-A-N-A-D-A-Eh!
I know that when people are getting used to the player ways, it's tempting to stick around with some ugly friends.

After some recent experience, I would recommend not having too many ugly friends... they will hold you back in your game.

Sure it might be tempting to score with some ugs, (I've been guilty once or twice) but getting them to go away when your done with them just doesn't seem to be worth the trouble...

Comments??
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Slickster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2003
Messages
2,517
Reaction score
215
Location
Canada
What a f*cked thing to say!!!

I guess it says alot about how you value your friendships. Are you trying to say that you'll lose your ugly friends because they are slowing down your game?

That's right buddy, blame your lack of success on your ugly friends.

Have your friends been good friends to you? If so, you don't deserve them. Do your ugly friends a favor, go find new friends.
 

B9

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2002
Messages
469
Reaction score
2
Location
Denmark
wtf does it matter if friends are ugly or not? If friends are defined by their dj factor for you, it can't be healthy.

I don't hang out with friends when I go out, even if I arrived with them. I will talk to people I meet (if I run into the people I came with later on, that would of course include them) and run into, but won't seek them out.
 

Legend

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2003
Messages
874
Reaction score
2
Age
42
Location
NY/CT
This makes no sense.....friends are people who have stuck by you through all the times you needed people around you. I personally dont care wtf my friends look like. To tell your the truth my best friend is a spick and has really bad acne. But this dude would cut someones throat if i asked him too.

It really does'nt matter what your friends look like.....the only thing that is going to hold back your game is yourself and your lack of confidence.
 

CLOONEY

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2002
Messages
3,015
Reaction score
5
Originally posted by Legend
This makes no sense.....friends are people who have stuck by you through all the times you needed people around you. I personally dont care wtf my friends look like. To tell your the truth my best friend is a spick and has really bad acne. But this dude would cut someones throat if i asked him too.

It really does'nt matter what your friends look like.....the only thing that is going to hold back your game is yourself and your lack of confidence.
Well said, friends are there through thick and thin, they are the ones who are still there when you break up with this chick u picked up called a "gilfriend". They are the ones who will give u advice and help u out. A couple of my good friends are really good looking, another one has big ears and buck teeth, and another is covered in acne. I still manage to pull MANY girls.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Makes you wonder if this theory is based on being on the receiving end at one time.
 

Rahul

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 4, 2003
Messages
124
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Actually I agree with So Pimp on this one. I think he meant more than just ugly, but unnattractive, and this works on many more levels than just physical looks. People attract people that are like them, and so most of your friends if you're a recovering AFC are probably AFCs themselves. Your friends can influence how you think, how you act, and how you carry yourself.

AFC friends can only bring you down. The best thing you can do is try to turn them, if they dont get with the program then drop them.
 

So pimp its scary

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2003
Messages
1,677
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Location
In the C-A-N-A-D-A-Eh!
I didn't mean guy friends...

I shouldn't have used the word friends... I meant friends in terms of 'not relationship material' girls. Whereas friends would imply some sort of mutual relationship.

What I was really talking about was to not stick around too much with ugly GIRLS that want you, but you want nothing with them... these girls will hold you back. Just in the sense that you try to run game on a lil cutie meanwhile you got this ugmonster on the other side of you trying to make conversation....

I really do think that you should stick by your friends untill they do something to not deserve your friendship... and plus, if a guy is unnatractive, he can be trained to become more attractive (I am living proof). 'Bro's before hoes!' comes to mind.

This was a miscommunication, and it was my fault... I shouldn't have called the ugly chicks 'friends'...
 
Top