A friend of mine in his mid 40's, a guy who is almost broke, and is quasi new age, is quite successful with women. I realize I've been holding onto alot of limiting beliefs after meeting him. Surely, I thought, a jewish cello player, who looks a little like Jerry Seinfeld, he cant score with women can he?

Apparently so. Black women F*CK best in his opinion (I've never had a black girl, so I wouldn't know).

Besides breaking some limiting beliefs, meeting him lead to a mini ephipany. I should have known it all along.

It comes down to BALLS my friends. That's it. The bigger your balls, the more women you're going to get with.

In his words, it was "be bold". When he first met a beautiful woman for a date, he'd hug them like they'd never been hugged before (women have told him this). Not a sleazy, I want to feel you up hug. But a bold, passionate hug, an embrace, that other guys would be too scared to do.

He's not afraid of looking like a fool either. He's a little ****y, he loves kino, and uses great EC.

Everything on this site comes down to how big your balls are.

Kino. It takes balls to touch a girl you hardly know.

Asking a woman out and risking rejection. Once again, it takes some guts.

EC with a beautiful woman. Lots of balls here.

****y and funny and not afraid of offending her. Again, showing her your balls.

Sexually dominating a woman in the bedroom. Spanking her. Telling her she's been naughty. Takes some guts.

All these techniques are simply ways of expressing how big your n*ts are. That's about it guys. Be bold. Be confident.

What is the boldest thing you can do when you go out on a date or first meet a girl? Chances are if you do it, she'll love you for it.

Awesome! OK, so where can I get a cello?

Sounds like a sweet guy...

I'm a guitarist, played in a lot of garage metal bands... never hugged a chic , I've had women grab my crotch, and stick their tongues down my throat.... does that count? I guess that counts for boldness.