Hello, Fellow Don Juans, My name is Mike and I 1st came to this site back in April 2003.

After being familiar with this site, everything here slowly began making sense to me, for example, I'd think of the ways I use to act towards girls; I'd laugh. I've given myself a name of re-birth, thanks to this website and forum, it is "Jenova".

I've put these DJ skills to particular use and they have worked for me, and I see females in a whole new different light today. I've been coming here everyday since April 03, and i learn something new. I have downloaded the DJ Bible for offline use, so I am always at focus and practice. But I still Have a problem.

I still think of my ex-girlfriend. Her name is Jo Anna Adams. We broke up in Feb 2001. And since then, I have killed any type of communication with her. Or at least I tried to. I realize now that I have been driven insane by her, the things she's done/said to me still has me in aftershocks. I have come to SoSuave.com to rid myself of this, since it is my re-birthplace. I will Post past stories and situations from Nov 2001 to Feb 2002 to this very day. I realize I need help, and all I really need is the support of my fellow brothers; you all. Everything I write about will be honest, and straight from the heart. These times I will write about are pasttime memories, dying to be extinguished. Every night I sleep, Jo Anna just happens to be a character in my dreams. Today is Tuesday, September 30, 2003.

This is called the Jo Anna Saga, and it will be updated almost everyday, please, give me advice, point out the mistakes, leave footnotes, do whatever you can for support. I can no longer hide from this nightmare. i would rather die on my feet than to live on my knees. Save me. Thank You.

Mike.

The Jo Anna Saga (Intro)

to see what Jo Anna looks like (and myself) go to
http://hometown.aol.com/creigh9/jenova

Originally posted by the_great_gaia
I still think of my ex-girlfriend. Her name is Jo Anna Adams. We broke up in Feb 2001. And since then, I have killed any type of communication with her. Or at least I tried to. I realize now that I have been driven insane by her, the things she's done/said to me still has me in aftershocks. I have come to SoSuave.com to rid myself of this, since it is my re-birthplace. I will Post past stories and situations from Nov 2001 to Feb 2002 to this very day. I realize I need help, and all I really need is the support of my fellow brothers; you all. Everything I write about will be honest, and straight from the heart. These times I will write about are pasttime memories, dying to be extinguished. Every night I sleep, Jo Anna just happens to be a character in my dreams. Today is Tuesday, September 30, 2003.

This is called the Jo Anna Saga, and it will be updated almost everyday, please, give me advice, point out the mistakes, leave footnotes, do whatever you can for support. I can no longer hide from this nightmare. i would rather die on my feet than to live on my knees. Save me. Thank You.

Mike.

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Explain to us how re-living your bad memories is going to do anything more than reinforce your obsessions? If you're trying to forget her, WHY would you devote yourself to reliving these memories on a daily basis? I'm not really sure what you want from us or what you hope to achieve here by reliving memories with this girl on this forum. Personally, I think it'd be a waste of bandwidth.

If you don't want to live on your knees, then STAND UP.

We're not a sympathy group and sosuave.com cannot help you if you're not willing to help yourself. I'm sure this girl means a lot to you and it hurts to break up with her, but remember it is YOU who attached this kind of dramatic meaning to her and only YOU can change that.

"Save me?" C'mon, you know better than that.

The Jo Anna Saga (cancelled)

Thank you. I took those words you've given me and I learned from them. You're right, it is a waste of time. Why re-live those moments by writing them? I would be a fool, I've always embarrassed myself.. why add fuel to the flame? It was a mistake to begin wasting bandwidth, you've wisen me up. Honestly, I think that would've turned me into a chump, lol, could you imagine that? Here I am, getting TONS of girls, doing TONS of girls, becoming a chump again?! That laughter for your ass! But thanks.. you'll hear from me again.

Don't be TOO hard on yourself...I've got my own one-itis that I think about quite often, but I've learned not to dwell on those feelings and constantly question my motives and what I COULD HAVE done better, much less waste my time on this board asking for answers to questions I already know the answer to.

You'll never forget her, but at least take the experience for what it's worth and learn from it. Don't dwell on the past, it doesn't exist any more. It sounds like you're doing quite OK.

But we can't "save you" any more than JoAnna can. That's up to you and you alone. If you can't be complete within yourself, no one else is going to do it for you.