I really didn't think this would happen!

I had the mack bachelor pad, I had women lined up, I had everything ready to go for a smooth year or two of sowin' wild oats.

So I met this woman. She's really cool. Like..really, really cool. Unbelievably cool. To put things in perspective, I'm divorced w/ a son. I've had a lot of girlfriends...I'm not a n00b.

I know it sounds corny, but she's like *designed* for me. We get along really good.

Anyway, it may be very immature. I've only been dating her for almost 4 months. I need a head check.

Am I just infatuated? Do I need to be slapped around? What's the rule of thumb here? I really like her...I guess my question is: when does one start using the 'L' word in a relationship?

It sounds like you see no faults in her, so yes, you are infatuated. If you really get along that well, it's understandable since you've been going 4 months strong. Don't puss out though...make sure to keep doing what works.

Rule of thumb...don't say the "L" word or bring up being in a relationsip until she does. Don't get all mushy either. Remember to keep up the mystery and continue being the leader. Lose that and she'll lose you.

Yep, your infatuated. Use the L word when you feel it, just make sure she feels it too, otherwise you will sound like a punce. If she feels it also you will make her very happy!! If you want to mack around with other girls then do it, if you dont then get serious with this girl. Which ever one makes YOU happy!

Originally posted by 8ball
Aww man..I'm falling in love...

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The above sh|t you wrote goes in the "WTF" category.
*laughs* Isn't that cute..

Uhhhh Huh.

Yeah.

Right.

Really?

I don't think so.

Not likely.

Ummm, nope.

etc...


Your life is going to be filled with disappointments, the girl that you're currently with is just one of them.

Statistically speaking it is almost a certainty.

Originally posted by sux2bu
The above sh|t you wrote goes in the "WTF" category.
*laughs* Isn't that cute..

Uhhhh Huh.

Yeah.

Right.

Really?

I don't think so.

Not likely.

Ummm, nope.

etc...


Your life is going to be filled with disappointments, the girl that you're currently with is just one of them.

Statistically speaking it is almost a certainty.

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NICE TO SEE SOMEONE POSITIVE ON THE BOARDS

Hey Im all for it...as long as you

1. keep the DJ minset
2. be a man, wear the pants in the relationship
3. keep the IL level up

I say go for it and enjoy it. Just don't go and get her pregnant, whatever you do

1. **B!tchslap**
2. Shut the f*ck up... you're not in love.
3. **B!tchslap**
4. You better not have told this girl that you're falling in love.
5. If you did *******slap... if not, DON"T

Keep dating this girl and all, but make sure to not slip into the skirt, it's easy, but it's a death trap.

and like myfriendblu says... wear a phuckin rubber!