Ok, here's a situation I need some input on. I go to the gym almost every day, around the same time. Also, at my school there are about 5 to 6 hundred people, so everyone sees everyone all the time. So I tend to run into the same girls a lot. I've approached some, doing this whole pick up thing, and been rejected. Ok, no big deal. But, the problem is, when you try to pick up a girl who you will see everyday, and it doesn't work out, you have to see them everyday. They usually lower their eyes and look the other way. Girls who I see everyday send all kinds of mixed signals as well. I'll approach one and start talking to her and think that it goes ok. Next time I see her, in the halls or wherever, she'll lower her eyes and look the other way. Then at some random time, she'll say hey or something, sometimes. Most girls seem to be really interested in their feet around me in these situations.
So how do I deal with picking up girls I see everyday? These are the easiest targets - you see them everyday; but I don't want to be known as "that guy" that has hit on everyone and been rejected (not a good rep for impressing girls). Advice?

Seriously...just be friendly and outgoing to EVERYONE, as if it was your natural self. Then you can start throwing in C&F, subtle kino, etc with the girls you want to hang with.

But remember, you're at the gym to work out. i.e. "I need to finish up this exercise. Give me your number and maybe we can grab some coffee/drinks/movie/bowling sometime." Then GONE.

Real men don't go around HUNTING women. They do their own thing, women appear, and they just kinda know what to do. This is what makes you different from "that guy." "That guy" goes out just specifically to meet and seduce chicks. You, on the other hand, have an agenda for yourself, and the women merely enrich the experience, they don't make or break it.

Women really are the spice of life, but you can't live off of spices alone.

A typical big-fish-in-a-small-pond situation. I came from a small high school, so I was in the same situation.


The best way I can think of to work around this is to focus on chicks that don't go to your school.

experience

I would suggest you look for a new place... I love places like malls and libraries because you have a lot more of a choice. They are big and great in that there are so many delicious choices... e.g. You get turned down by one there's going to be another fresh face to look for. That's the important thing: fresh faces. Don't give your heart and soul to a place where you go a lot and people see you. Those are the places you have to avoid. Keep looking for places with chicks you have never seen before.

What I am doing is using those places to get my confidence up. Then, perhaps when I feel I have all the experience I need then I can PU in places I frequent. Use your pick up time on places you don't frequent and have a wonderful time.