hmmm...a bit confused on the interest level of HB9. What i at first thought was a good connection and interest level, turned into something else...here's the deal.

Before class today, i was chatting it up with one of my class mates, and this chick who i payed virtually no attention last week sat by me and initiated convo.

I started a bit of kino with her, and holding her hand slightly, I admired her diamond ring i (speculating it was from her BF), but it ended up being a b-day gift from her dad. This girl i would rank as a 9, based on looks (NIIIIIICE BODY!!!), personality and personal style, so my mindframe had to be a bit different...i would have to give a combo of fun and neg hits...

I made a joke about her being from the south, that I heard engagement rings were common practice for dads to give their daughters...he he. She laughed of course, and gave me the 'ol slap on the shoulder.

After a bit of elicitation and ****y humour i headed upstairs, and EVERYONE else followed. I grabbed a seat in the class and she grabs the one right next to me.

Things went well for the next few hours (****y humour, eye contact, etc.) and during the break, i managed to get her to buy me a snack. . She was going to get some chocolate and kept asking me if she should...i negged her and said it would probably go straight to her a$$ and make it bigger than it already is. Again i got a good laugh. Outside, I commented on her tatoo (which was on her lower back...REALLY low), and as she was showing it to me (and as i was about to touch it softly with the kino ), some ugly guy who was standing next to her beat me to it. That Ba$tard! We hung out for a bit, but the crowed seemed to get bigger, so her interest turned to the AFC's that were hanging around her. So...i fuct off - I didn't want to fall into the AFC category with all the other losers, and besides it gave me time to mack other chicks.

Anyway, as i headed up to class, she AGAIN was behind me (probably coincidence) and i asked if she was staring at my a$$ as i walked up the stairs. She seemed to get a kick out of it and commented.

I couldn't do much else in class after that. Anyway...as class was over, i ended up getting downstairs before her, and i chatted it up with some classmates...as she walked by and we made eye-contact..she said NOTHING!!! NO smile, no goodbye, nothing...

At first i gauged her interest level as sincere, but seeing that she was getting a lot of attention from some AFC's, and based that she is a HB9 who probably gets guys hitting on her all the time...my instincts tell me that it could have been more of an attention thing.

From what i have read in the bible, the best thing to do is to trust my INSTINCTS more than anything. I think the gameplan for this point on is to give her NO ATTENTION, and maybe pull a reversal? I've made a lot of girl "friends" who I'm using for social proof, so i really have no interest in being her friend, especially because my interest is more.

DJ BIBLE states that if a girl has an interest in you, she'll make getting her number easy...the easiest and most obvious thing to do was get her number after class (end of convo), but she stayed absolutly clear of me after class...

Impressions?

Just because she's sociable and likes attention, it doesn't make her an attention *****. I think you're being too quick to judge. Besides, you'll see her again. What's the rush? I don't think you need to completely ignore her. Infact it might be counter productive because it doesn't sound like you've shown her enough value. Ignoring only works if she knows what she's missing.

Sounds like you're doing good so far though.

Good raport, some kino, C&F.... there's something missing... ow yeah, that's it. Ask for the number next time, and then try to set up a date. If she goes for it, the she has a sincere IL. Only one way to find out.

Good job! Sounds like you DJ-ed her alright.

Nice story you did well man! I probably would have tried to isolate a bit better during the break. Don't give any ugly AFC a chance to touch her tattoo at all. Was that guy actiually in your convo or did he just put his grubby fingers in?

And yeah isn't it good when everyone follows you in the room? Once my whole class was just sitting outside the room since the door was closed. I strode up and said, "Why is everyone sitting out here for?" Then I opened the door and walked in, with everyone behind me!

yeah...maybe i'm judging her too quickly...it just seemed kinda odd that things went well, then nothing...

what's the rush? i dunno, just don't wanna waste time i guess. I've always felt that if you didn't get a # in the first 10 min., then it's bad...maybe it is different with chicks in school?

Don't think i'll see her today, but i will on thursday...should i just keep up what i did yesdterday, then go for the close? Or is there something else i should do? I guess i figure if i WAS DJ'ing her correctly, it would have worked out better in the end...she would have been more open?

ideas?

oh yeah...and the shytty thing is that she lived about 1 hr away (Laguna beach area), and have no car...so THAT may be a bit of a problem...