Well I think I lost my fave HB.

We started out as BF, GF for a few months which was great.
I got cold feet and instigated an open relationship.
She was okay with this for a while but got a little uncomfortable with the prospect after a while.

On Friday she came out to the club with us. I spoke to her and pulled her and it was fine. But while I was sitting beside her, in a moment of drunken lunacy I turned round and pulled the girl on the other side of me.

My HB saw it and said she hated me and wanted nothing more to do with me. She said she doesn't even want to be friends. Then she vanished and I never saw her again all night (I took someone else home instead). I called her yesterday and she just cancelled the call.

I know this is probably impossible, but do you think I could recover from this? She's a honey.

Leave her alone, concentrate on the other girls. This is her last ditch attempt to bring you to heel and get you back into a relationship you say you never really wanted anyway.

You should let this one go - she's emotionally involved, you're not, and she's getting hurt.

I know you're right, but the thing is I do care about her. I'd like to at least be friends. Plus she has some CDs of mine

maybe... the fact she reacted so strongly suggest she still cares about you...

dont ask me how though..

give her a few days to cool off then see if you can talk to her..