Donjuanpablo
Master Don Juan
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I must have read it about a thousand times at least on these boards and its probably one of the most common misheld understandings in regards to seduction and self improvement. "Don't listen to women, they all lie, they're all attention wh0res...blah, blah blah......". For some reason, most people here have been taught to believe that all women are egotistic slvts who lie through their teeth when it comes to female advice.
The thing is, I have rarely been given bad advice from a woman, in fact most of what i have heard or been told by female people who are of a similar age or experience to me has been pretty much spot on. If a woman has respect for you and wants to help you, you will get an honest answer of which is usually very good. Women are approached, hit on, asked out every single day. They know a lot more about this stuff than some guy who's too scared to approach women but has read what someone said on an internet message board. Give them time to give you good solid advice, and they will you give it to you.
The only time I feel women's advice is particularly ordinary is when they could not give a shyt about the person they are providing the advice to. That's when the stock standard canned responses come out, ie be nice, etc, but this is not a decpetive thing, its just laziness. And I'll tell you what, I'd do exactly the same thing if i had no respect for the other person.
The bottom line is, a lot of people here couldnt command respect from a banana let alone a woman and thats why you're having trouble getting the right answers from women. Get out there, respect yourself, and stop looking at women as egotistic sluts who are out to make your life a misery, because you can learn a lot more about them when you hear it from them rather than here.
The thing is, I have rarely been given bad advice from a woman, in fact most of what i have heard or been told by female people who are of a similar age or experience to me has been pretty much spot on. If a woman has respect for you and wants to help you, you will get an honest answer of which is usually very good. Women are approached, hit on, asked out every single day. They know a lot more about this stuff than some guy who's too scared to approach women but has read what someone said on an internet message board. Give them time to give you good solid advice, and they will you give it to you.
The only time I feel women's advice is particularly ordinary is when they could not give a shyt about the person they are providing the advice to. That's when the stock standard canned responses come out, ie be nice, etc, but this is not a decpetive thing, its just laziness. And I'll tell you what, I'd do exactly the same thing if i had no respect for the other person.
The bottom line is, a lot of people here couldnt command respect from a banana let alone a woman and thats why you're having trouble getting the right answers from women. Get out there, respect yourself, and stop looking at women as egotistic sluts who are out to make your life a misery, because you can learn a lot more about them when you hear it from them rather than here.
. Its not a gender thing. Its not that women give bad advise, or men give bad advise. Its PEOPLE, both men AND women. 99 percent of the people in this world are FULL OF CRAP. I have pointed this out numerous times. The best advise you can get is your own. You must educate and learn yourself. The information and answer to all your problems and questions are out there. You must be that one percent.