Yo, this is time sensitive. I got a girl coming over tonight. I'm not really into her but with alcohol flowing, who knows what might happen. If things go south I can probably talk her into inviting her cousin over. They're both 8s but her cousin is the real target. She's already shown interest in me and thinks I'm a prettyboy (in a good way). What else is there to do?

I've already:

1. cleaned up the apt, but not too clean. I don't want to seem like a metrosexual.
2. got lots of liquor in plain view. she said she feels like drinking tonight
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   I need some condoms, I can pick those up when I pick her up. I have this nagging feeling that I'm leaving something out. I need some help.

Massage oils.

The ladies for me.

damn, she might not come because her roommates are trying to drag her out to a salsa club. if i can't atleast get to her, i can't get to her cousin. damn c*ckblocking roommates!

it's cancelled. the b1tch went all psycho on me and tried to use reverse psychology. she never even came over before she flipped.

she said i invited her over for a get together. she actually asked if her and my friend could come over becuase they were tired of chilling at each of their places. my friend stayed home to talk to his brother (long distance) but was still open to coming over and having a movie night.

first she tells me that i need to plan my events better. i remind her that she asked me at the last minute. she then denies asking me and says i invited her. then she tells me she saved the log of our aim convo. she says she looked over it and that i invited her. i'm like whatever

she said she still wanted to come over but had been drinking and felt lazy. i said fine, i can come over to your place if that's cool. she was like, "you can't just invite yourself over". i said "i didn't". then she goes on about how she doesn't feel right with me coming over because we don't talk much. i said "that's because you chose to focus on R and M (my best friends) whenever we al hung out." she said "i knew R for years (he introduced us) and i got closer to M faster". I said "that's because you chose to. i met you before M did and you paid no attention to me after then. you don't even hear half of the stuff i say". her response was silence

then she comes back with "you talk crazy". i was like "if i'm so crazy why do you even bother talking to me?" more silence. i said "i joke alot." she says "they aren't funny to me." i told her that R and M like my jokes because my "talking crazy" is actually an inside joke. she wasn't around when the joke began so she doesn't understand. (we're like a black version of "seinfeld")

then she says "you don't have to get an attitude." I was calm and pristine as a hindu cow. I said "i'm not angry (expected this of her), i'm just a little agitated. i should be since you said i'm boring and you don't trust me." "that's not what i said." i told her "that's how i interpreted it." she tells me i'm angry again (transference) so tell her "i'm a big guy so people feel threatened whether i want them to or not. I'm just saying you're not making as much of an effort to know me as i am to know you" she said she understood and then convo ended with her feeling frustrated. her b1tch tactics failed. little did she know that i'm a vet while she's still a trainee.

Ahahah that's going in my sig!

You should not have even started debating or arguing with her.. actually what was posted was a kind of "why-not" question. Meaning in ******** that she needs to get it over and done with, that's all.

Just talking it out would satisfy her and she needs no arguments which would further reinforce the idea of whatever she has just said. Let her speak her mind about it and divert the topic away.

You have time in the future to use actions to prove to her that she was wrong during that time, but NOT by arguing her.