I know its not much,

But I read Senor Fingers Weapons of Mass Seduction last night, & finally a little light clicked off! (especially about talking LOUD and PROUD)

Man thats some deep $hit

Now I have a problem approaching girls when sober, this is a milestone for me.

I was a McDonald's waiting in Line, when in front of me were 2 girls.

One had a really bad inked tattoo on the back her neck

She places her order, and waits for her friend to order.

As soon as she was done, 3 sec rule

"Wow! Nice tattoo! Did the artist run out of ink??"

She laughs and goes into how she got a discount on the tattoo, and then proceeded to show me the rest of her tattoo (one on her upper breast)

I then Showed her mine and we talked about tattoo parlors a little.

Then it was my turn to order , so I order a Double Cheese Burger..when she decides to step back a little..

then she says to the other cashier "Ohh! Can I have a double cheeseburger with my order too (mirroring?)

Then as Im waiting for my food she says

"So? you dont like my tattoo?"

I said, "Nooo, Im just teasing, just have your friend fill it out with a magic marker when you get a chance" (she laughed lightly)

then I asked for her # when she left and she gave it to me! but she was only 18 and Im 27

I know its a baby step! but I was damn elated!

Then I drove off! I was feeling the adrenaline, and had Music pounding from my car

this other girl in front of me turned her head around for a REALLY extended period of time, So I waved to her.

She smiled and we drove away

I really hate the fact that I have to get sloshed to get confidence to talk to women, but this time I did it sober!!

Congratulations man!! Let this be the first of MANY cold approaches that you do...Whether successful or not, don't let it get you down...

Yeah baby!!!!!!

Thas what I'm talkin about! You were funny, ****y and well-timed. Señor Fingers would be proud of you!

keep the field reports comin yo.

and congrats!!!

by the way, the girl was totally mirroring you.

nice work man!

you are light years ahead of me. cold approaches scare the crap out of me.

where did you read this stuff?

Nooby,

its in the Tips forum, under Weapons of Mass Seduction

The thing that did it for me tho, Is that I promised myself, That I wont fear this shyat ANYMORE!!!

Im going to Face ALL my fears from now on

People are in war dodging bullets in fear of their life, and I am safe at home Afraid of a harmless girl??? or her words? How can words Harm me??

It makes no sense

Ive made a stance in mylife. Ive always been afraid of alot of things (snakes, spiders, height, girls,public speaking)

But I am sick of this, and time is running out for me. I dont want to live the rest of my life in fear.

SO im stepping up and killing all my fears (step by step)

wish me luck!

wow man i really admire you. you may think your victory is small but you are my hero!

best of luck to you, and do keep us posted!

[[runs off to the tips forum]

sweeeeeeeeeeet!

rock on witcha bad self