I know this is a bad idea and I'm about 90% sure I won't do it.

So I met this girl at the gym a couple of weeks back. Made my approach and got a solid response. Now that school has started and our schedules have changed. Well hers has, I work, I haven't run into her since. Here's the article:

Girl At The Gym

I didn't get the number as you can tell. I asked her out, she said she'd get back to me she was dating someone but they were on the outs, but she would like to grab some drinks with me. Her suggestion, not mine. You could tell by her body language and tone that she was really in to me and surprised by my approach. Anyway, one thing that got the conversation good is that she is going to be doing her internship about twenty feet from where I'm sitting right now. That's two months from now.

So here's what I want to know, I didn't get her last name from her. I did however get it from a lady across the hall. With the response that I got from her I'm guessing it won't be looked at as weird if I looked her up and called her. It could be assertive, could be flattering, could be desperate, could be down right dirty. The chances of running into her again are about 10 to 1. I have other girls on the plate, so it isn't oneitus at all. I haven't been thinking about running into her I would just like to see her walking around my house in her underwear sometime in the next few weeks.

Be brutal and be honest. Don't start with the oneitus shyte though.

NEXT!.... lol im playin.... why worry about it? call the dumb bytch up and do whatever you wanna do. if she doesn't appreceate the fact that you looked her up and thinks you're a fvcking stalker than who the fvck cares? just do it.

I'd hold off.

If she didn't give you her ph # and you "researched" it and called her...well, that may look a little desperate in her eyes...

I'd just chill. Go to the gym. Hang near where she is going to intern...(Basically stalk her)...and happen to "run into" her one day...

Take it from there...

NEXT. Looking her number up is EXTREMELY AFC and desperate.
You missed out on your opportunity. Its gone forever. Sucks, don't it? Chalk it up to experience and learn from your mistake.

Sucks big time for real. I don't think the opportunity is gone forever though. If I run into her at the gym it's going to be back on. I just don't know how I didn't get her number. I think it was the fact that I don't hit on girls in the gym, so I forgot. Lined up everything to that point perfectly.

Question is this for my own good:

1) What makes this afc?

2) Why would it be seen as despearte if I wait a couple of weeks? Why not assertive?

Originally posted by Disco
Be brutal and be honest. Don't start with the oneitus shyte though.

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Sounds like you already know the answer.

it's afc because a Don Juan always has prospects and doesn't go out of his way to chase a girl down.

You are being a slave to your desire for this one girl. WHere is the strength in that? If this is not one-itis, then why are you tracking her down?

I say don't NEXT her. Just wait for the internship. Be patient, and treat this chick like you have ten other hotties waiting for you at home.