Three's a crowd on movie date?

Austin Allegro · Sep 3, 2003

Got to know a gorgeous girl on holiday. We had met before but didn't really speak much.

However, I was getting great signals - eye contact, touching, laughter etc.

After some discrete enquiries I found out she is 'seeing' someone but not too seriously (and she never refers to him as her boyfriend to me or anyone else).

So we went out for a drink and it all seems to be going well, she even suggested going to the cinema next week. I agreed and then she said

'shall we invite the others as well?' (meaning our two or three mutual friends).

I said 'ok' but then wondered - should I put my foot down and say 'let's just keep it to ourselves'? Or will this creep her out?

Suggestions please!
Thanks.

Oscar Wilde · Sep 3, 2003

If it's a date you go alone. If it's not a date, invite others.

So you made it not a date.

Did you want it to be? You should judge her interest in you, and then ask her straight out. Go read the bible too.

gabrielshear · Sep 3, 2003

for a while i was thinking that she was going to say to invite her other .... erm.... boyfriend!!! but then i got reliefed to hear that she meant to invite her friends....

wel i think that since she suggested it u should of course accept...

think about it this way.... during the film there ain't not much room for conversation and if you did not have an intention of hitting on her during the film than it is a good idea to bring friends with her so she can feel much more at ease with her friends also around.

and later on i bet her friends ... especially if they are couples will go out somewhere quiet for themselves... leaving you the change to...... !!!!

dongabrielshear

Austin Allegro · Sep 3, 2003

Thanks for the advice...however I went with the gut instinct and have emailed her saying let's just go alone. Haven't heard back so probably blown it but what the hell!

squirrels · Sep 3, 2003

Maybe she doesn't quite trust you yet? But then again, she's going out and having drinks with you.

I think you might be "friendzoned" here, especially since she has a boyfriend...but keep doing what you're doing. You never know...she might just be nervous about cheating on her b/f, or not sure of you.

Kodiac · Sep 3, 2003

Thanks for the advice...however I went with the gut instinct and have emailed her saying let's just go alone. Haven't heard back so probably blown it but what the hell!

If you blew it by doing this, she wasn't that Interested. I would have told her on the date however, that it would be better if it was just the 2 of us.

It's not a date if friends are involved. It's a lot more intimate without friends.

Be careful you don't get LJBF'd (lets just be friends)! Show her you want to be more.

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Three's a crowd on movie date?

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