this is crazy me and my gf we been going out for a month and a half i been djing her like crazy she is always laughing with me and she say she loves me and that she was very happy that she found me 2 days ago we had sex. she is kind of virgin because her first bf was her first 1 after 11 months (poor afc) and they just did it twice.
and he broke up with her any ways that was 10 months ago and then we started to go out . man this chick is really nice shy and she feels a world for me yesterday was my bd and she bought a really expensive set og cologne( the only gift i have give her was a picture frame with my pic) anyways and a card here is how the card goes
i love everything about you: i love the caring friend in you who knows just how to be a comfort and source of real encouragement to me . i love the lover in you who makes all my dreams come true . and who paints the world in colors that are wonderful and new.... i love the magic in you that can somehow always bring special joy to even the most ordinary thing in you. i've found my soul mate who just the perfect way of making me fall more and more in love with you each day!
that came with the card and she wrote this
i fell very lucky to be with a guy like you. everyday i fell something stronger for you. happy birthday baby i love you!

like i was saying we see each other everyday and i can't help it we work together we have school together what u guys recommend

i dont understand the problem you are having?

Whats the point you are trying to get at.....you dont want to see her everyday?

Who cares that you see her everyday man.....when you like a chick and she digs you, you want to be around her as much as you can.

Stop finding things to whine about and enjoy this nice girl you seem to have.

yeah i know but what i don't want is to get bored of each other

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yeah i know but what i don't want is to get bored of each other

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Exactly what I was thinking. So just back off some, see a little less of her.

lol yeah how we work together and in school we see everyday we even have the same lunch alot of ppl at work said that if we don't get bored of each other we might end up getting marry cause we are creating a bond some **** like that but i dunno i know i'm a challange for her and she is crazy for me but i don't that to finish

there is nothing wrong with not being able to get enough of another, it is good, it is intoxicating. but like any other drug, to not become dependent on it, and do not sacrifice ecerything else in your life for it. as long as you don't HAVE to have it every day.

keep your other seperate interests, hang out with your other friends, do not lose your sense of self.

a relationship gets boring only if you let it, BTW. there are so many things to experience in life, this should not even be a possibility if the feelings are real and meant to last.

How the hell can she be kind of a virgin if shes had sex twice already?

guy when we did it it hurt her alot and she said that what happend with her ex she had it inside like just a min cause she was feeling pain and that with me is been the longest time that she can hold it cause it hurts her alot.
bro when i was doing it with her i felt that i was doing it to a virgin she was very scare and telling me doing slow pls she was scare ass **** and the pain was there too. she even toldme that it hurts her more that the first time i also know that the second time hurt more thant the first one and so on until she gets used to
i guess the reason why she lasted more with the pain with me because i ate her first and she was already relax i dunno .

So what you're saying is that you only get 4 hours to yourself each day.

the more you see each other, the less exciting it will become over time. right now, it's only a month and a half as you said, but when it becomes 5 months, it'll be different.

4 times out of 5, try to pick your FRIENDS over her. just say she wants to see you one day. tell her you planned something with the fellas, and leave it at that. don't be harsh with it though.

in school, spend more time at lunch just studying or anything else you can think of.