I went to the bowling alley with 4 of my friends 2 nights ago, we were all a little typsy and we were lookin for trouble as usual. There, i see my Ex-LTR with her new bf, her friends and her brother and his friends. Being the hardass i am I walk by them and bump the kid so hard he falls he gets up and starts talking **** and i turn around and my friend grabs me and trys to calm me down.

I went to go take a piss, and when i came out they had all left. My friend (very large black guy) runs out cause my ex-gf's brother yelled something on his way out so i run out after my friend and we start exploding out in the parking lot, screamin "4vs4". They act like pussies, and get in their car and say "not here" then "well be back" as to get more people, I'd imagine. We sat out for a little while then decided to roll, security had called the cops.

Everything was building up inside me and i started getting depressed about the whole situation. I decided to go home and I was feeling pretty bad so I went to sleep.

Next day I decided to go party to get my mind of that whole situation, so I go out around 7 to a party, flirt a little till 11:30 and then come home. I made a meal real quick, took a quick shower and a girl called me and told me to come back to the party. I hadn't taken a sip of alcohol... yet, and this girl sounded pretty enticing (btw im doing that no jack off till u get some from a 7 thing from that post... makes u do crazy ****) so I go out to go to party and we chill till pretty late. I started drinkin and me and her talked for a while but there was too many people to close, then I ened up looking at my watch and seeing it was 4:30 so i told them I had to get some sleep cause I was pretty tired. I proceded back out to my truck my friends were like "hey you ok to drive" and i said yea. I get in and start driving and immediately realize i had more then i thought.

I drove all the way back to within a block or 2 of my neighborhood and, turning in, i started blinking my eyes and being way further down the road then I was before. I knew i was falling asleep. Then I heard a loud ass crash...

I hit a light post and got out of my truck freaking out. I knocked the whole ****ing thing over and crushed a mail box. Peoples lights started turning on so i ran out of there and got back to my house... I was loosing it at this point my truck was so ****ed and leaking gas. I chugged a gallon of water and went to sleep.

6:30 am. Cops come to my house, wake me up, and ask me if i own a white bronco. I talked to them for a while and we went down to the truck and I was praying they didnt test me for alcohol but i thought the gallon of water I chugged might have lowered my blood-alcohol. We went out there and i made it very clear I was sorry and that i couldn't believe I let this happen. My people skills kicked in full affect. I told them I left my house at 11:30 and went to watch a movie with some friends. I had classes at 8 the previous morning, so I had been up for around 20 hours. I told them i fell asleep at the wheel which is definatley what happen because there were no skid marks, I hit the accelerator when i fell asleep and hit the pole at 40.

I was sitting out there with my head in my hands and the cop comes over and tells me it will cost 3000 to the city for the light pole. I kept telling him i deserve whatever he gives me. Somehow through some divine countenance he goes "son, I could charge you with wrecklass driving , destruction of property fleeing the scene... ... .. but your a good kid with a clean record, my sons only 15 and I'm scared to death about him driving. I'm gonna let your father handle this one, you made a honest mistake don't drive that late if your tired."

I got out of a drunken wreck and fleeing the scene with no charges. The past month has been so ****ty for me with loosing my LTR, her getting a new boyfriend and little to no girl options for me, and then this **** happens. I'm hoping my life takes a turn for the better and fast, I think i deserve it by now. Through this situation, I want you guys to see life is short man, you gotta live to the fullest.

I could have died in that wreck. Worrying about my ex-gf who doesn't give a **** about me and her new bf? Childish ****,life goes on and time is the one thing you can't get more of so don't waste it.

Also NEVER drink and drive. I'm not going to get behind the wheel of another car even if i had one drink ever again, I was too lucky that time.

F*ck man! Are you ever lucky! Sounds like you have a ton of sh*t going on in your life.

Bullying your ex's new bf was a bad move. Makes you look immature and shows that your emotions are out of control. Stick to higher ground bro. Don't let that sh*t bother you one bit. At the very least don't let her know it bothers you. You have to demonstrate that you are above all that crap.

Glad to know you're not hurt and not in trouble. You should change your name to LUCKY! A wise DJ has this quote on his signature. "Experience is a hard teacher, she gives the test first, the lesson second." You passed the test and have learned the lesson.

I can't see why any girl would ever dump this fine young man.


At least you seem to have had a change of heart after the night was over. Next time don't be angry, anger makes you weak, stupid, obnoxious, etc.

Originally posted by Phrozen
I can't see why any girl would ever dump this fine young man.

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Yea, I can't either. I mean, on paper I'm flawlessly an *******.

First of all I'm not going to hate on ou for drinking a little drunk, because I've done that quite a few times as well. Stupid I know. Anyway, I'm sure its hard as fuvk to get over your X, especially if you see her with a new boy toy. However why aren't you doing the same thing?? Why are you letting her get the best of you? Your a DJ aren't you? You should always have girl options?? Go out sarge new girls, get your confidence out of the gutter and become the guy you use to be. Hey bro, I'm not here to give you sympathy, but life has its ups and downs, just know it will be going up from here with your help.



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Well, hopefully you didn't have aspirations of getting back with her, cuz picking fights with her bro won't help your cause any.....oh well

At least u didn't get busted and seem to realize that you need to turn things around.