“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A good excuse to call

St0ryTeller

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Hi guys!

I'm pretty sick, so I won't be able to ask this girl out this weekend, too bad.
But, since her IL is quite high, I just wanna give her a call just to say hello and maybe ask how was her day.
Simple stuff... and b4 anyone tell me not to call her all the time, this is gonna be the first time calling her, since I got her # recently...
The problem is... I can't think of a good excuse to give her a call... maybe because I don't know her that well, and I don't want to look like I'm hooked on her by calling and saying "yeah... I just wanted to say hi!".
So... any sugestions? :p
 

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Tell her you lost her number and were trying to dial it from memory to see if this was the right one...
 

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Originally posted by St0ryTeller
I don't know her that well, and I don't want to look like I'm hooked on her by calling and saying "yeah... I just wanted to say hi!".
So... any sugestions? :p
Dude, chicks love it when guys just call them to say hi! Guys call each other with a purpose. Girls call each other and expect guys to call them just to say hi.

The main thing you should be thinking about is what excuses to make to hang up first. This is something that I always get stuck on and end up with them saying they must leave first. Those who hang up first have the power!
 

St0ryTeller

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Thx guys!
Excuses to hang up first are gonna be really easy. :)
Anyone has any other good excuses?
 

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Originally posted by St0ryTeller
Thx guys!
Excuses to hang up first are gonna be really easy. :)
Anyone has any other good excuses?
Your excuse is that you're a man and that she's a woman and you want to bang her.

Although you don't have to tell her that, but then again, you don't NEED an "excuse" to call. You call because you want to.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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