“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hungnan

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There is this chick who is totally into me. She calls me all the time and emails me all the time and wants to spend one on one time with me. The thing is that she has a great body but an average face. Her personality seems kinda cool too.

Have you guys ever had a chick totally into you but you not completely interested? I know that if I start dating this girl seriously, a better chick will come along.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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becker

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I can tell you right now, don't go after this girl if you're not totally into her. It just causes problems. Hold yourself back and wait until someone you really like comes along.

I personally have been involved with girls who I wasn't totally into, but just did it anyways. Bad news, especially if you're not into them. And, you're right, once you're with them, a better one will come along and you'll be kicking yourself, unless you're desperate.

Recently I had the same situation, a girl was throwing me all these hints that she was into me, totally blatant, and she was similar to the girl you describe, but I just acted like I didn't notice the signals, and she more or less stopped. She gave me her number twice, even though she knew I had it, without me even asking for it. I never called her.
 

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Screw her anyway. You don't need to get married :rolleyes:
 

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If you happen to feel horny when you're around her, then go after her. If you're not feeling horny, then don't waste time or try to force it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Unless you want all the attention that you're going to get from this girl after you sleep with her, I strongly recommend against doing anything. You can't be that desperate. Be patient, and you will find someone better, and when you do, you'll be free to act however you want because you don't have some psycho woman on your back..
 
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