I'm getting sick and tired of my ex girlfriend, long term relation ended up and I messed it up big by not being able to say goodby for 2 months..


it's been 5 months now.. and I haven't spoken, called her or sent her a message by other means for those other 3 months

and what do I get in return ?

I've had 5 random guys suddenly added to MSN.. all saying I should leave her alone.. I block and delete them right away,

I've spoken with 2 of her girlfriends, and they told me she was concerned how I was doing and I told her I'm great and life hasn't been better, I said things like... look at me. I'm healthy, you can feel my abs *placed her hand on them* and I feel great.

that happend last weekend.

today aarrgghh!! another ****head shows up on msn..hey you twit.. this and that.. leave her alone.. you are hurting her.. I didn't even bother to tell him I haven't spoken to her in months..


WHAT is the deal here? I'm getting sick and tired of this... I'm not gonna call her cause I know for sure either she'll hang up... or I'll lose my temper which would mean showing she's getting to me.

how does one react to this ? I sent a message to one of her close girlfriends and I hope I can clear this out trough her.. cause I'm getting sick and tired of random people saying I should leave her alone... I F#CKING HAVEN'T SEEN OR SPOKEN TO HER IN MONTHS!

Dude, ive been there.
I even did that whole 6 pack thing, look at me now, never been better stunt, was a good feeling.
Actually, the girl im talking about spoke to a buddy of mine just last weekend, she asked how i was going, what id been doing and made a comment on "how i never talked to her anymore".
Bah, even though shes been giving me death stares with her friends and even her brother, i can only imagine what rumours shes been spreading about me. I did dump her in the end cause she disrespected me - other than that she was gr8 and HOT.

Anyways, back to you. Within MSN their is an option in security to only allow people in your contact list to view your status and send you messages. Maybe you should consider that.
Or change your MSN name.

You don't need that sh*t.

One day the b*tch should get over it. Id just continue to leave her alone, see other chicks, and actually have the time of your life. Fuk msn off and ignore those dip sh*ts.

Ur da man

I would get in touch with her and tell her about her 'so called friends.' Tell her that it is silly for her to be sending her cyber henchmen after you. Of course she will deny it but as long as you keep insisting that it is of her doing and that it is silly, she should eventually have a talk with them.

thanx peeps, I just slept a few hours so I feel better now, and am more in control of myself then last night.

I'm gonna talk with a girlfriend of hers and tell her that this is childish and stupid, if she has something to say to me.. she should say so in person and use that little bit of respect I have left for her.. if she does not have the courage to do that then she should sod off and get on with her on own life, mine has only improved since I broke up with her.