Alright....I've been out of the game for about a year... My skills and effort paid off and I met a cool a$$ breezy who I had a very nice relationship with. We had our "creative differences I should say and we have now mutually broken up, though we still have an understanding, if you know what I mean ...Anyway, I have come to find that spittin this game is not llike riding a bike, i.e. you never forget type $hit...trust me, before I (gulp) fell in love, I had absolutly no probelm peeling *****es left and right. Even when they approch me, I still feel dumbfounded. I can talk to em like any other human being, it's just I feel like a straight square, fumblin' you feel me. I ain't scary, I ain't ugly, and my profession puts me in *****es sights all day, but my skills need some brushing up. If anybody feels me offer some suggestions...Laterz.............

Ok which one are you from the pn? Dv8?


Aight holmes...you know the drill..you gotta get back into the game. You gotta go back to school and do your homework.

Oh you used the word "spitting" that is how I reconized game.

Start hitting the clubs....you know the procedure. Your pimp-tight so just put that shyt into action bro!

Ok which one are you from the pn? Dv8?


Aight holmes...you know the drill..you gotta get back into the game. You gotta go back to school and do your homework.

Oh you used the word "spitting" that is how I reconized game.

Start hitting the clubs....you know the procedure. Your pimp-tight so just put that shyt into action bro!

Ok which one are you from the pn? Dv8?


Aight holmes...you know the drill..you gotta get back into the game. You gotta go back to school and do your homework.

Oh you used the word "spitting" that is how I reconized game.

Start hitting the clubs....you know the procedure. Your pimp-tight so just put that shyt into action bro!

Originally posted by awoldaking
Alright....I've been out of the game for about a year... My skills and effort paid off and I met a cool a$$ breezy who I had a very nice relationship with. We had our "creative differences I should say and we have now mutually broken up, though we still have an understanding, if you know what I mean ...Anyway, I have come to find that spittin this game is not llike riding a bike, i.e. you never forget type $hit...trust me, before I (gulp) fell in love, I had absolutly no probelm peeling *****es left and right. Even when they approch me, I still feel dumbfounded. I can talk to em like any other human being, it's just I feel like a straight square, fumblin' you feel me. I ain't scary, I ain't ugly, and my profession puts me in *****es sights all day, but my skills need some brushing up. If anybody feels me offer some suggestions...Laterz.............

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It sounds like you are just a bit soft in your approaches since you've been off the market for a while. That's not bad since you seem to still have your confidence, that tends to be the hardest thing to build up.

My suggestion is to follow what you said in your post that you can talk to them like any other human being. In other words, just work on your marketing. Focus on just talking to women and letting them get to know you and vice versa. Don't focus on the hard close, just give them a sample of what is about to be on the market.

In doing this you won't have the pressure of the close hanging over your head and you will feel more at ease. The good thing about this strategy is that if you have the confidence, it will show without you even trying. Women with a high IL will let their interest be know and will do most of the work for you. Before you know it, you will be closing as easily as you can order pizza.