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Thanks for calling! Ugh! I'm such a friggin putz!

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Woman calls me. We have a great conversation; she's all happy and laughing.

At the end...I go..

'Thanks for calling. Bye.'

Thanks for calling? What kind of weak sh1t is that?

I've talked to her quite a few times. I've never said this before. I have no idea why I said it.

One giant AFC step forward? Or, am I reading too much into this?

It just seems like such a weak and servile thing to say to a woman. I won't say it again, I 'm just hoping she doesn't think I'm a complete nerd.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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haha, here's a lil somethin im going to let you in on, every man, has a secret desire to be nice to women, even murderus, they just dont, just like every woman has a secret desire to be a slut, just dont say anything, and tease her more for it, i quess everyone slips every once and a while..
 
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oh yeah also meant to say, never talk down to yourself, always build yourself up, anyone remember in the bible it says wake up, in the morning, look in the mirror and say " I am a REAL man, a DON JUAN, NOTHING will get in my way i WILL succeed!!" lol or say "imma gonna get tons of pu$$y" lol both work
 
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Originally posted by 8ball
It just seems like such a weak and servile thing to say to a woman. I won't say it again, I 'm just hoping she doesn't think I'm a complete nerd.
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Nah, it could potentially be worse, she may thing of you as a 'good friend.' Don't let get to the point of only calling if she has a problem. You may still have a chance, call her and tell her you are going to be out and ask her if she wants to come along. Don't make it a big deal though, you're just out with your friend. ;)
 
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Don't worry about those little details, man. I'm sure in addition to your phone call there are a billion other issues on her mind I doubt that one meaningless sentence altered her opinion of you one bit.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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WHOA!!

THAT WAS YOU?!?!?!

Dude, check it out. I was on www.guysaredorks.com, where i read the forum where women rant about guys. One chick said this:

"like, oh my god listen to this. i was talking to like, a guy on the phone, and when we like, hung up, he like says "thanks for calling bye" and i was like WTF?? isn't that, like, pathetic or something? what a looser!!!!!"


ok, that didn't happen, obviously. But dude, don't worry about it. I gerruntee the chick isn't making fun of you to her friends cause you said that. It sounds like a perfectly reasonable way to end the conversation. Stop stressin. :)
 
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Yeah, you are at a stage many of us get into called "Paralysis by Overanalysis"

Don't overanalyze ever word or thing you say. Then again as you read by my recent posts, I kind of read into things alot to.

One bad night doesn't mean the end typically. (It can though if it's the first date of course LOL!)
 
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