“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sigh...I guess I'm her boyfriend? I think I screwed up here.

8ball

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Had a date.

Went good. She spent the night & I did her. We stayed up all night having s*x, joking, laughing, and cuddling.

Sooooooo...next day..

Get email saying that she's not normally that easy :rolleyes: , usually takes months etc..and wants to know if her 'boyfriend' ( meaning me ) can come look at her car.

Then another email and another mention of the fact that I'm her boyfriend.

Hmmm..Well, I dig this woman..she's VERY cool. I like her style and wouldn't mind having her around for a while.

>>Here is where I think I screwed up.<<

Not only in email, but also on phone, I'm getting major hints that she wants me to know that she considers me her boyfriend. ( And by 'boyfriend' I take that to mean 'exclusive relationship )

So..I don't really feel like playing games..so I reply to one of her emails and say something to the effect..'Hey..If you wanna consider us a couple.it's cool. '

Ugh..Was that a bad move? No challenge? Did I lay down too easy?

Or, after you had s*x w/ the woman..is this OK? ( In small doses. )

What's the play here?
 

Walden

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Dude, relax.

It sounds like you're making a masive deal outta nothing here.
 

T.T. Boy

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Do whatever you want. If you already boned her and she called you her boyfriend, you can get away with quite a bit.
 

Julian

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Dude who cares, its not like you cant leave her whenever you want. Be a couple, be exclusive. When she gets boring, leave.
 

Lone_raider

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Hey at this point you've won. Do whatever you want, you've got a girlfriend if you want one, if not as the others said, just leave.
 
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