“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How could I have approached? (girl with guy and girl)

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I was at Starbucks today and as soon as I walked in I saw a girl that looked exactly like my type and she noticed me. I walked in with perfect posture and made eye contact with her making her look away...like I owned the place. Anyways, I wasn't ready to approach since she was with 2 friends, a guy and a girl. I don't want these obstacles to slow me down in the future though. If she was alone, I was going to ask if she went to the local college or where she went to college since I'm almost certain she was in college.

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by iqqi
doncha know how to flirt from a distance? could've tried that, just to test the waters.
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thats a good option but if he doesnt have the confidence to approach then your idea will prolly be harder

you dont really need a reason jus go over

"excuse me i just wanted to let you know that i really like your shirt"

"oh thankyou"

"by the way im Drix, and you are?"
 
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Anyways, I wasn't ready to approach since she was with 2 friends, a guy and a girl. I don't want these obstacles to slow me down in the future though.

All I am hearing is an excuse.

You just undid all the good work you did on her. Your first impression on her was good. But when you failed to approached, you did not live up to her expectation.

Next time, talk to the GUY. Ask him about anything. Talk to him for a while, then talk to her friend. Sit down and continue friendly conversation.
 
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Originally posted by uniassign
Next time, talk to the GUY. Ask him about anything. Talk to him for a while, then talk to her friend. Sit down and continue friendly conversation.
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That can work sometimes if the people are polite.. but be prepared.

I was in a club with 2 j-girls once, and this guy walks up, and says "Ni Hao" to the J-Girls who look at him blankly (haha).. then starts to talk with me.. I look at him like he has a c0ck attached to his head.. then he asks "Do you know the manager of this club?", I tell him "No", and he walks away. Not comfortable.
 
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