Recently..Ive been dealing with some friends who have been flaky, distant..and a bit too swollen headed for my taste..

i.e. not returning phone calls..taking my hangin out with them for granted..talkin shyat behind my back

has anyone here ever applied DJ techniques to friends??

while I dont need a$$hole friends like this occupying my time..

have u guys every noticed .. the worse u treat a friend...the harder they try to be your friend???

kinda like with women..the more u try to impress them..the less they try to impress u??

it can definatley happen but now is the time to take the alpha male role

stop hanging out with them on your regular basis

i being a recent graduate of HS would see my friends anywhere from 4-5 days a week. and it is and was great

but now that summer was approaching i knew that i needed to divide my time

so i started going out with more woman, more friends that i had not seen in a while, some school friends and my cousin

so i was seeing them mybe 2-3 times a week

theyd call me to do somethin and id have to tell them im busy

"well what r u doin tonite?"

"oh not too much jus hangin with some old friends, listen ill call u tommrow nite,...gotta run...bye"

well they if they heard the backround which im sure they did they knew i was at a bar/club/party or jus in the bedroom .

theyd ask me the next nite, "so Drix whatd u do last nite?"

"oh not too much, what did you guys end up doin"

these kind of answers could only go on for so long though

so slowly id tell them little bits of my nite or my date or whatever

and i knew theyd talk about it cause guys can be much bigger gossipers

ok thats one part of it

the other is really getting to know your friends and make sure they are worth while

talk to them about the stuff they care about and agree with them

if they are pissed about another friend, agree with them to a certain aspect and tell them that you will try and fix the problem

also try and call ALL your friends

i realized that i rarely called one of my friends, he would ususally call another friend of mine to meet or sometimes called me

when i realized that i decided that i was gonna call him up one day and jus hang out with him and just him

we went to see a movie and jus grab some lunch. nothin complicated

but the most important thing is be loyal

sometimes the best ways you can show it is without words

a friend will see that and realize your value if he is a friend worth having

you should know better than to expect too much from human beings. especially your friends. i don't know what kind of flaky behavior you are talking about, but if they are real friends, and you are a real friend, sometimes you just have to give them a break.

if they are going through a funk, then the last thing they need is you being an azzhole, you attention wh0re.

maybe you should be supportive.

if you treat a biatch, then you don't know how to treat a biatch

You obviously missed the point of my post. So let me break it down for you....

I assumed since you are a masters level dj that you were talking about women right..

Ok now..if you treat a woman///that means give her shyt...cater to her needs....rub her feet....uhh I'm sure you can come up with 3000 other ways to symp (afc)....lol

now read the last part///then you don't know how to treat a biatch...that means...yes you got it..your not being a real man to her by creating challenges and breaking her back or shyting on her...you know the c&f...call it busting her nuts I think its called...

My post wasn't a diss on you...too bad you took it that way...what was it you said to me?...lighten the ....up? yeah that's it star...

hey I'am a star...I'm a master dj...I'm great....yes I am I really am...that is why I am stargump...uh no...stargimp...uh no not that one what is my name....oh yeah stargeek...no that's...not it...

now that is a slam...not my post playboy!

Oh next time you post try not to move your lips as you spell out the big words....

now that's another slam...foo...lol

No, My post was regarding male friends..

damn you sure do type alot

Hmmm...male freinds....this obsession with my rectum....Ok..LOL

And what did I teach you about intelligent men...go on now...yes ...they have a lot to say.

But I do agree with friends (flakes) like that who needs enemies or wolves at your gate....

I hate flakey people. I refuse to deal with anyone who is flakey...it's not worth the effort in headaches.

Oh here's another post...

sorry I wish I could spank you alittle mo...but I do have a life. But for christmas do you still want that jar of ky and that left handed glove? How about I send you a gift certificate for your next colonic treatment instead cupcake?

Oh moderators you may eject this foo now...I'm done with him...(just joking)...

Listen mr. Personal Trainer..I have a Masters in Psych..and working on my PhD

you are simply a personal trainer..my philosophy is...use whatever strengths you have to advance in this world..but the brain isnt your main gig..

but I was talking about flaky childhood friends who start acting like they are doing you a favor by hangin with you or returning phonecalls..

I have decided to NEXT a few friends because of this...and was curious if DJ techniques work on male friends who act like their sh1t dont stink or become too "comfortable" thinking just because you have been friends for a long time..they have the right to stop "trying" to be your friend

Hey, I'm back...my buddy wanted to read some of these posts.

Dang why so serious now? Didn't you write this as per your private email to me:

".I was just
fu *ckin wit you and having some fun on the DJ forums"

and this:

"you seem like a cool guy..and you have been making me laugh my ass offf the
entire time.."

*****
anyways I wish the moderators had not of ripped your attempt to defame me off the net...that was ludicrous to me...and I guess to them too.

peace,

I am under the understanding that we have no beef is that correct?

Oh in your pic's you forgot to change shirts & coats with 2 of those girls...and the blond isn't actually touching you back...study them they give clue's mailboy!...hahahahahahahaha....you gotta get up pretty early in the morning to get one by on me....


Congrads on going for you drumm rolll....silence please on the bord....
"PH.D" ..that really is quite an accomplishment. Yes I am a lowley personal trainer.....I guess you didn't like the truth about your lips moving when you typed the big words huh...hahahahaha!.....

Boy you know you can't out do me...ever watch white men can't jump....now that's how we quip....I'm handling you with kid gloves on...and my fellow peeps know this...

peace bro...and :" I just dont like to get played" "you are too damn serious
about *****.."

uhh yeah your right....I am serious about ***** and I can understand you don't like to get played either so I will quit now!

Here is one for your PHD test:

remember my puzzle that I gave you which you never answered?

what do you get when you put the letter Q with the letter T with the numbers 314....

It stands for qt pie...as in the girls I hang with...

I will not give you a math lesson in 3.14 ect ect ect...

not bad for a lowly personal trainer ehhh...I think folks thought Arnold..no last name necessary was dumb too cause he lifted weights...

Im glad you are mature enough to keep private emails private..

but I guess desperate people do desperate thing eh?

try using your wit a bit..if you want to impress me or the forum..posting bits from email is really weak

ohh and you think the blond wasnt receptive eh? heh oohhhkay
there plenty more where those came from

Star,
I have had to NEXT many a friend. Its just part of life. I have noticed it usually involves another women he is gone AFC overboard with, thus pussifying him to the point where he sucks to be around, then I next him.....You can't really DJ him, but I go with the Tough love approach. Tell him he is a pus, stop hanging out with him and wait for him to dump/get dumped, then when he comes crawling back, totally lash out on him why he was a wuss, and if he still wants to be your friend, take him back. Thats how I roll....

Hey...you didn't say don't share...infact the whole purpose was too share remember out bet???

I'm a master with words bro...you should know that by now...

Now I'm sorry if you think I betrayed a confidence...I didn't reveal anything wussy about you now did I? I didn't reveal you said you wanted me tooo....**** you? hahahahahaha! Just joking folks he didn't beg me to bend him over with my big strong black hands and rippling skrong (strong) arms .....

Hey geek..you know I make yo punk ass laugh boy!

and your only other picture had 2 people (face less) laying on a sofa bed fully clothed...no faces shown...if it wasn't for your dark skin I wouldn't of know it was you...or your brother....or your uncle...

remember I said no friends...no family...no work folks...in your pics...anyway that beef is over and done with am I correct?

we cool now right! we are both mature adults here ...hell you even have a masters so you are definately mature....right!

finally...wheeew from the onlookers....don't bother sending me any more pictures....it's cool now remember...we are cool now..
peaces and pieces of peace.

You are a Master Debator

you sent me about 10 pics ..with you in only one of them..

its all good tho..I really dont care to see more...make what you will of the ones I sent

No I sent you pics of the ho's undressed and then pics (web cams) of me sitting there with them either kissing me or undressing behind me...don't get it twisted.

as far as the belly dancer...I sent you her proffessional pics and then a pic of her sitting alone...How would I get that and I sent you her emails that she sent me...and explained her educational background..and remember I have a pic of her baby...it's all on a zip file...which I can send to a bystander...

when I do something I do it right and completely.

I've been through the proof stage before in a much tougher arena than you could ever give me.

Now if you want I can send your pics to a bystander and mine and they will decide for us? why not we do that...

And who begged me to stop sending them pics of my women? I guess the light of truth was too much for you..

Infact somebody reading this step forward and volunteer you email addy and act as a go-between....I will send you the package of pics that I sent Starman and I will send you the 3 lonley pics he sent to me...some of my pics are very nasty and if you read the titles of them you can tell they are address to me....

starman remember read the id of each pic to tell if it's real or not! My women put names like..me and my ass....back shot....ect ect...

I told you I used to like to make my women pose for my web cam and other things....the girl bent over spreading her cheeks (me and my ass) I made have sex with my white buddy while I watched...ohhhh bad very nasty and bad..bad bad....different time...different person.

finally...my buddy just pointed out:

1. when you posted your hot or not photo's you had your face on them.
2. when you sent me your 3 photo's as described above you scratched off your face.
3. why?
4. in 2 of the pics why are you wearing the same shirt and the same coat? if you have so many women...and why are you just standing with the women (coworkers?) and not actually doing anything a real playa would be?


He asked me to post these questions for his benefit...as far as I'm concerned were cool though...beef squashed!

sorry gotta go...I'm going to be late...fashionable so though..

peace

Hey bro my boy is changing. I just read that your going for your Doctorate. Cool. I have a Masters in Theology and a B.A in Communications. I can understand the stress studying puts on you. Maybe you should lighten up a little?

Supremes Friend,

to be honest...I only looked at a few of your photo's..

I really dont care at all playboy..and I have my own reasons for not posting pics of me with various women here..

and I find it amusing(and scary) you are sitting at your computer with a friend looking at my pics

and anyone can produce web cam pics..I can send you a dozen if you like