“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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the first date

Gambit2318

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i just met a girl from online we have been talking alot and everything is cool we did plan do go on a date friday and i want to know if i should bring flowers on the first date?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

ZeeOwl

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No way. Never bring gifts on a first date. Especially not for an online contact. Keep it short & simple too. You have no idea who you're dealing with. Avoid contact as much as possible before the date. You have to keep the mystery at maximum.
 

OddTech

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The bible have a lot of good tips on the first date. Read it.

And of course, no gifts. You don't even know her yet.
 

Halo

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ZeeOwl has some good advice. Keep contact minimal from now until your date. I have met a few online girls before, and if I talked to them too often before our first meeting, it just felt like things got too "familiar" and that feeling usually carried over to the real world. Mystery works well in both directions.

Definitely nix the idea of bringing flowers or anything like that. I would also add that you shouldn't throw out compliments either, especially about her appearance.

Just go with one expectation - that you're going to have a good time and if she's lucky she'll get to bask in some of your fun too. Out of 8 or so online girls I have met, only two were at all worthwhile. The online thing can be good for practice though.
 
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