Anyone here have experience with approaching women who are walking in the direciton opposite to theirs on the street, and doing speedy #closes on them? Basically just introducing yourself, asking what her name is, and 'telling' her to give you her number so that you can get together sometime? Tried 4 of these today with no luck. Not that the (low) number of rejections gets me down, but i just wanna make sure that i'm not wasting my time.

Re: Seedy #close on the street?

Originally posted by Krassus
Anyone here have experience with approaching women who are walking in the direciton opposite to theirs on the street, and doing speedy #closes on them? Basically just introducing yourself, asking what her name is, and 'telling' her to give you her number so that you can get together sometime? Tried 4 of these today with no luck. Not that the (low) number of rejections gets me down, but i just wanna make sure that i'm not wasting my time.

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Yeah, you are pretty much wasting your time that way. I'm guessing that %99 of women are wary of approaches like that. They have no idea what type of guy you are other than you are stopping women on the street asking for phone numbers.

I think you should slow down a little and engage her in a little conversation for at least a minute or so. You are trying to sell her a product without showing her the goods, let her see what she could potentially be getting into.

Re: Re: Seedy #close on the street?

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Yeah, you are pretty much wasting your time that way. I'm guessing that %99 of women are wary of approaches like that. They have no idea what type of guy you are other than you are stopping women on the street asking for phone numbers.

I think you should slow down a little and engage her in a little conversation for at least a minute or so. You are trying to sell her a product without showing her the goods, let her see what she could potentially be getting into.

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Yeah, that's pretty much what i was thinking. I didn't plan this out or anything, i just went with the flow and am now analyzing the outcome. I tried a slower approach too and it worked far better.

If it's all the situation allows then go for it, but what you're doing is outting yoursefl in their "creep" stereotype (uncontextual approach) and then closing without rapport.

But bravo zulu for actually rocking that approach , the moving CA can be a killer.

For a street approach with a girl going the opposite direction I usually try to turn round so I'm going the same way (look puzzled , tru around fiddle with you celly or watch) and then start conve as she passes me from behind.That way at least you have time to work some rapport , even if it does look a bit odd.

I have zero experience in approaching chicks going in the opposite directions because my game takes longer than a few seconds, but my mate has and this is what he does:

1. Follow them until they are stationary and then proceed on using your normal method of street sarging; or

2. getting their number quickly and then call them straight away to talk to them whilst you are getting to your destination.

Never tried it, so take this with a grain of salt.

Originally posted by uniassign
I have zero experience in approaching chicks going in the opposite directions because my game takes longer than a few seconds, but my mate has and this is what he does:

1. Follow them until they are stationary and then proceed on using your normal method of street sarging; or

2. getting their number quickly and then call them straight away to talk to them whilst you are getting to your destination.

Never tried it, so take this with a grain of salt.

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Yeah, i think the first would work far better.

it seems u r missing a key 'bridge'. u have to chat them up and build rapport b4 u close. a guide i like on street picks ups is maniac high:

http://www.pickupguide.com/classic/