“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I went to a small Chinese restaurant today where I saw a really cute waitress. The place wasn't busy but I was with my parents. I thought about getting her phone number, or at least ask when she has her break so I could get her number then, but the problem was that I felt self-conscious about doing that within earshot of other people (i.e. my parents or her boss).

I've gotten over the getting rejected part, so I wouldn't have cared a hoot if she said no, but I feel embarrased when 'macking' in front of other people.

Is this normal? What do you guys do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by dontmindme
I've gotten over the getting rejected part, so I wouldn't have cared a hoot if she said no, but I feel embarrased when 'macking' in front of other people.

Is this normal? What do you guys do?
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Here is a rhetorical question, are you embarrassed in front of everybody or just people in the same class as your parents?

Anyway, the best way to handle the situation is to excuse yourself from the group and talk to the HB out of earshot of the group. You do not need to provide any explanation when you leave or when you get back. If asked, you "just needed to ask her a question."
 
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don't pull stunts like that in front of parents. She works there - so visit her again by yourself.
 
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Sounds to me that you arent totally over rejection. When you are totally rejected you dont get embarrased when you get rejected by whoever. also that suggestion about going back is a great one. you know she works there and shell be there later on so next time go solo as a last resort or go with a wingman.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
don't pull stunts like that in front of parents. She works there - so visit her again by yourself.
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Stunts??? Visit her later??? It's his parents, not the Gestapo!!! Be a man but do it tastefully, what are you afraid of?
 
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