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Oral and new partners....

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So, you meet a new girl - on the first date, or perhaps after a half dozen dates you go back to her place. You both get into each other and it's on - your getting some A##....

Your obviously going to use a condom, because you both have not been tested, but the question is, Do you go 'downtown' and give her some oral pleasure?
 

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hi.

IF I feel comfortable enough about her, then I will go down on her but ONLY if the lights are ON so I can so some inspection first. I would never say im inspecting but if she tells me to turn out the lights first she can forget getting any downtown action.
 
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Are you the type that likes danger?

After reading a post on this forum a couple months ago it changed my perspective on this question.

Some guy had a sl*t give him a hummer and he woke up in the morning with a burning d*ck that wouldn't go away.

Can't remember what happened to him but it freaked him out pretty good. Me too.

I'd say no.

Its a sad world isn't it.
 
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Originally posted by NewMan
So, you meet a new girl - on the first date, or perhaps after a half dozen dates you go back to her place. You both get into each other and it's on - your getting some A##....

Your obviously going to use a condom, because you both have not been tested, but the question is, Do you go 'downtown' and give her some oral pleasure?
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I think that if theres open cuts/sores inside the mouth, you can get into bother. But other than that, you should be fine. It's pretty unlikely that there would be cuts present....go for it! :D
 
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Re: Re: Oral and new partners....

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
I think that if theres open cuts/sores inside the mouth, you can get into bother. But other than that, you should be fine. It's pretty unlikely that there would be cuts present....go for it! :D
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Psshhh, of course the chic is going to say go for it! :p
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think the ability for AIDS to infect through oral sex without mouth-cuts is very low. Herpes is the only other one you'd have to really worry about. Most of that other crap can be spotted and/or cured.

It would really depend on the girl and the situation. If she just came off as generally slutty, I'd probably be careful. If she acted like she had SOME standards, I'd probably go down there. :)
 
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I know a lot of girls who don't let a guy go down on them right away... Even some girls who really enjoy it... because it is sooooo intimiate (more intimate than giving a guy head I think). Sometimes you have to have more trust there before you can let a guy do that to you... even if you are already having sex with him. I know this isn't really the issue here, but I just thought I'd say it.
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Sometimes you have to have more trust there before you can let a guy do that to you... even if you are already having sex with him. I know this isn't really the issue here, but I just thought I'd say it.
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huh? trust, hows that work?, whats he gonna do steal something while hes down there?.
 
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huh? trust, hows that work?, whats he gonna do steal something while hes down there?.
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ha ha ha ha ha ha... yeah that's where I keep my jewelry... :rolleyes: okay... maybe "trust" isn't the right word... but it is sooo intimate... it can be pretty embarrassing for some girls, so they might like to wait til they have more comfortability with the guy... I think it is much more intimate than sex.
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
ha ha ha ha ha ha... yeah that's where I keep my jewelry... :rolleyes: okay... maybe "trust" isn't the right word... but it is sooo intimate... it can be pretty embarrassing for some girls, so they might like to wait til they have more comfortability with the guy... I think it is much more intimate than sex.
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Also has a lot to do with how much foreplay you put into it, how much you get her turned on to the idea. If you just try to go right down there without getting her warmed up, it ain't gonna work.
 
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screw this!

id never go down on a chick on a first date

its ALWAYS the other way around

and id never go down on a girl at the snap of a finger

she has gotta earn that
 
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