“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Making shy girls comfortable?

Buck Naked

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I'm presuing this shy girl at work who has been eyeing me for some time. I was wondering how i can make her feel more relaxed and comfortable when i aproach her?
 

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make her laugh. It'll ease any tension she may have and let her relax a bit.

Cgraz
 

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I dont like the SS stuff, but some of its, principles apply here.

Mirroring.
Mirror her attitude. If you come up all sunshine-happy, she wont feel comfortable. If you come up easygoing, happy, relaxed, calm, she will like you, and eventually you will take lead and take her to your REAL mood.
 

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don't mirror ****

she "s shy,how is she gonna open up if he's clamming up?! it takes time !b persistent try 2 exploit thing in common .....
 

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Its semi mirroring anyways, not really mirroring. And its also semi pace/lead.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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One of her good friends is always at her side, so maybe that will help. We're having a picnic at work tomorrow so that will the best chance to move in bc she will be by her good friend (more comfortable) and both play hockey and i kno alot about hockey so im going to start their for a common interest.
 

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One more thing, i heard her say that she's kinda single and that she just met a guy, but if the someone asked her out she would have to think about it. I took this as an opening to persue, am i right?
 

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Its Always On by Vassago.
If she farts and does bubbles with her saliva while doing it, take it as a invitation for you to approach. Always.
If she says she doesnt like you, she does.
If she doesnt like you, you will notice it, no need for DJ skills to detect it.
 
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