“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Anonymous wingmen. A good idea?

Is hooking up with a strange wingman a good idea?

  • Hell yea, my friends are chumps.

    Votes: 13 76.5%
  • Hell no, he might be a chump.

    Votes: 4 23.5%

  • Total voters
    17

bugsquish

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You might be inviting a hookup with a DJ wannabe, a RAFC, an AFC, a guy with no looks, no style, no game, no intelligence. Someone who wants to get in your way and feed off your game. Basically, someone who will do your game more harm than good.

You might also be hooking up with the suavest best looking guy on here. You just can't tell.

What do you guys think?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

MoAF

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Well I've met 2 DJ's so far. One I'd talked to for a year or so, and another only a week or two. They drove up to BUF together and I must say it wasn't too shabby. After all, if you meet someone and they are just an AFC/RAFC/DJWB you could always just approach solo with them chilling in the background taking some mental notes and just take turns. Having somone to share your battles/stories/ideas with is invaluble in this game.
 

SamePendo

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You just check the past messages this guy has made, and check out how he is. It gives you a pretty good idea of what he is.
 

So pimp its scary

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You could always ask for a picture or some sort of unbiased rating of skills (ie.: I would say that I have more bad days picking up chicks then good days, or on a scale from 1(retarded with women) to 10(Master DJ) that I am 4)...

or checking out what the person posts... the only thing is that you might end up being the teacher rather then the pupil... and I could see that being an advantage in some ways.
 

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F**k...if he's keeping her friends busy...

That's the main thing...find a decent looking dude who's attracted to her friend(s) and sic him on them while you work the one YOU'RE into.

As far as OTHER DJs, like was said, if you don't get a true DJ vibe off the guy, the best thing to do would be to take turns approaching and seeing what happens. And again, really, all the wing has to do is distract the other girl(s) from the target.

Having a neutral observer instead of someone who's in the mix with you, though, could yield some decent insight.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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