“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Double checking interest

Buck Naked

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Theres this shy girl at work and i have been eyeing for a few weeks now. I've always been bad a reading signals so i was hoping some of you could help me judge them.

The first time i saw her i did notice her looking me.

I catch her looking at me a few times then she looks down (shyness i assume)

When i talk to her she smiles

and finally i tend to see her looking at me in the corner of my eye

I did read a great post about shyness but it can get confusing with regards to shyness and interests. If some of u could give me your opinion i would really apperciate it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Francisco d'Anconia

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Stop being afraid and find out if she is interested. Asking her out is one of the best ways to do that. If she isn't interested, who cares!!! NEXT!!!
 

Walden

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Yeah I agree , tho i woulda said it a little more gently :)
 

Bonhomme

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Best quick & easy way to tell if she likes you

is to get inside her personal space a bit. A little closer than would be comfortable with a stranger. if she doesn't move back to establish the distance, you're money, get her info, and set a date.
 
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