“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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21 and Inexperienced (dating, sex, etc)...LIE?

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I'm 21 and I have been on a few dates, but really nothing to write home about. It's always casual group dates or spontaneous like let's go for coffee. How should I deal with questions when the girl asks about my dating or sex life, which is non-existent? Do I need to lie? Should I make up fake stories with fake names?

On a similar note, if a girl is asking me about girls I'm seeing or how's dating going, am I in the friend zone?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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hell yeah man, fake it until you make it.

I'm not very experienced also but lots of girls think i am because of the way i act.
 

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its always important to act confident in everything you do. but not overly confident to the point of bragging.
 

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How should I deal with questions when the girl asks about my dating or sex life, which is non-existent? Do I need to lie? Should I make up fake stories with fake names?
I wouldn't lie, that often leads to problems. It is just a question, you could turn the tables back on her, ask her that or a different question or change the topic or don't answer -tell her it's privileged information.

Or be very vague, mention a few names etc.. but don't go into details. If she gets intrusive ask her if she's feeling 'insecure' etc.. etc.. Keep up the mystery, make her think.

On a similar note, if a girl is asking me about girls I'm seeing or how's dating going, am I in the friend zone
No, not at all. Maybe she's wanting to see how she could fit in ? Don't forget that her action's are more important than her words.
 
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