Sometimes, I'm literally "in the zone", you know that feeling, everything is flowing smoothly, you come up with lightning fast witty remarks, you feel phenomenal. There's a certain flow to everything.

And then there are other times (like tonight when I was with a group of people), and my mind was thinking..."gee...I hope I dont stutter when saying this", "ummm...now what do I say", and you try so hard not to be nervous, but you are. There is zero flow or smoothness to it.

What's the difference?? I went to a Tony Robbins seminar last year (fantastic by the way) and learned how your physiology and breathing can affect your thoughts. I tried changing these things, but it still didn't feel natural, and you feel out of it.

Do you have any tips to share when your mind goes blank? What do you do?

If your mind goes blank, go with it. Tell her that your mind just went blank. Ask her if she ever has that happen to her. It may make for an easy topic.

maybe thats a great time to apply Kino,
find a excuse to touch...

Nice hear...(reach-touch her hair)
Wow nice engagment ring - wana shag?
Tatoo's are good conversation also...

i find that when my mind goes blank, its usually bcos I am asleep bcos her talking has put me there with a boring topic.

Fortunately, not all woman are boring.

When I lose my train of thought it means my mind is going elsewhere. Or that I am losing interest in the subject at hand. When it happens with a woman I usualy excuse myself with, "I really should get back to my friends, I've been niglecting them all night. Although, it was very nice to meet you xxxxx."

Perhaps it's your body's way of telling you there's something about her that just isn't right. Just because she's a HB doesn't mean she's what you're looking for. There may be something in her pheromones that your nose is picking up. Who knows, but biology tells us that our bodies will let us know what's right an what isn't.

Don't fret it, find a woman where you don't even need to think when talking to her. The kind where you start talking to her at 10pm and then what seems like 5 minutes later you notice it's 2am. Those are the ones your body is telling you are right for you. Then all you have to worry about is whether or not she's thinking the same.

-al

It happens. When you are hot, you are hot. When you are not, you are not.

I wouldn't try to analyze it too much considering that you are mostly on the hot side of things.