“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I cancelled on her - now what?

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Don Juan
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I had scheduled a date with a girl a couple days ago, but I had to cancel on her because of work reasons.

I told her I would make it up to her next week and she said okay. My guess is that her interest level is moderate to low. (which about mirrors my interest in her)

How should I handle this? Call her again, or just forget about it?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

DJ Jeff

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call her again, she should understand that people have to work, and i think she'd rather date a guy with a job, than one that sits on his ass all day eating chips right?
 

The Business Man

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If your interest level mirrors hers, which is moderate to low, I would look for another! Again, I hate to be the one who tells you to "next" her, but you should not pursue a girl you are not interested in.

Of course, I could have misunderstood you. In that case, I would call her on a weekday the next week, and set up a date a few days later.

The Business Man
 
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