“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Any Bouncers Out There

John11276

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I just got a gig as a bouncer. Any other bouncer's here have any tricks to pull leg. I'm sure it's not going to be hard at all.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Julian

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You must be a big mofo.

No advice. Sorry
 

John11276

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nah, not too big. 6'2, 220 solid. i take that back, i did get approached by an arena football coach recently.
 

Chewy Bagel

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Most women will walk up to you (drunk as hell usually) and say **** like "I wanna **** you" etc. You should have no problems. I think letting girls get in for free should help out a bit too.

Good Luck!
 

ProQD

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I work as a bouncer and sometimes security for events and it’s not the gold mine I thought it would be. It’s quite a power trip to have people kissing your butt, but you still have to deal with some really bad attitudes. People come up with every excuse in the book why they don’t have any ID on them, etc. Girls try to flirt with you to get in free…and that’s the point – to get in free, not because they like you. You have lots of opportunities to work on being confident and in control. You see lots of eye candy, but you usually can’t do anything with it because you can’t leave your post and you have a job to do. What’s nice is you get to know the regulars. If you hang out there when you are not working you already know some people. I don't want to discourage you but it's awesome at first, but it soon becomes a job.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Whitty

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I used to bounce for a while. I'm 5'9"- 5'10" 200lbs

I just let things work out for themselves. I've been out of it for a while so I couldn't tell you too much now. I've been cramming for a damn final so the 48 pages of notes has fried my brain for today, maybe I'll write more later.
All I can say now is that you have nothing to worry about.
 
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