“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I was reading a post elsewhere by a guy named Jonathan Aston. He suggested just talking to anyone as prep to talking to HBs... this gets you in the mood of things and gives you an idea of how to talk to anyone-- and not treat HBs specially.

Mystery suggests talking to people in general when he says,

"...getting into a TALKATIVE state by just talking to groups of people (evenguys) is great. this gets you into gear...."

I tried this today and it is golden. People just like to be asked questions and talked to. Afterwards I felt so energized I was approaching left right and center-- but I was more relaxed because I knew I could just approach anyone, anytime ...
 

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Yes, I agree wholeheartedly. I work at a great little Home and Garden Center, and I get to meet and talk to many different kinds of people. Some are very easy to talk to and others you have to work on some. Just plain talking to folks has been excellent experience.
 

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You're right... I even found that people who aren't receptive at first (eg ***** shield, or unfriendly) can often be worked on if you are more persistent.

I just hate getting shot down cold, especially if I'm in public. I'm working on just forgetting it, but when the persons's still there, or when there are people that saw me do it... and I can't eject, then it's a bit irksome... But I guess that's what meditation and experience are for.....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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