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No social proof + not a smooth talker = abandon the idea of cold pick-ups?

This is very frustrating, particularly when the women look around anxiously, and I can feel the opportunities blowing up in my face. Then, I panic...I'll say something stupid just to avoid dead air and I come across as being moronic.
I've never been big on cold pick ups, yet this seems to be the only way to meet new women for me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Practice, practice, practice...Other then that, read some convo tips. Social proof isn't really need in my opinion when going for cold pickups. Do you REALLY need someone like Tom Cruise as a wingman since the women would probably go for him instead of you?
 
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Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
No social proof + not a smooth talker = abandon the idea of cold pick-ups?

This is very frustrating, particularly when the women look around anxiously, and I can feel the opportunities blowing up in my face. Then, I panic...I'll say something stupid just to avoid dead air and I come across as being moronic.
I've never been big on cold pick ups, yet this seems to be the only way to meet new women for me.
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Practice makes perfect. I don't see why you need social proof to do a cold pick up. That's why, if I had the balls to do them I'd do cold pickups all the time. The woman knows very little about you, she can't use your friends to destroy the mystery cos' she doesn't know who the hell they are :). I'd say keep trying...
 
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what the hell is social proof anyway...

any femme concerned about social proof is probably a gold digger..

i know some millionaires who wear hawaiian shirts and thongs.. they look like a nobody.

you mean social connections?? might be useful for a party invite, but i'd rather be a lone wolf.
 
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I thought the best sort of social proof is in the form of other women, whether they're friends, recent acquiantances, or a "fake date" cousin, etc...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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