This closing approach like so many other tactics seem to work more when you are having fun and could give a sh** less.
Your level of aggressiveness can vary quite a bit when it comes to scoring. Keeping her interest level high is great, and in a bar or club situation this is often all that is needed. Be ready to close but don’t do it too soon, you may find that she will close you and you will come off as being much less aggressive and more desirable. I found this out on accident because I just wasn’t ready to close yet but she did first, it has always turned out better when it was this way. You may also find that after she closes you, she is ready to get the F*** out of there and onto business.
Also in the times were there isn’t a strong closing on my part. When I wasn’t too pushy (I never am) I have had them practically hunt me down or call me in an hour or less (after I am already sleeping).
This is not just from my personal experience but I have also observed many situations where a guy who is having fun at the clubs dancing with various people will get closed by various chicks. They sometimes will come up to you and say they are leaving but they are hesitating before leaving, if you were too aggressive (all over them) they may be trying to shake you off instead of get you home.
The aggressiveness factor I am talking about here is only for closing. When it comes time to dance and have fun be aggressive, don’t ask for permission to dance with her. The exception is if you already know her or you have actually talked a little. What I mean is don’t pull a chick standing on the sides that you have talked to already and expect her to dance without asking her. But if you are both already on the dance floor by all means dance with her and don’t ask permission, but if she leaves let her go and don’t follow.
Your level of aggressiveness can vary quite a bit when it comes to scoring. Keeping her interest level high is great, and in a bar or club situation this is often all that is needed. Be ready to close but don’t do it too soon, you may find that she will close you and you will come off as being much less aggressive and more desirable. I found this out on accident because I just wasn’t ready to close yet but she did first, it has always turned out better when it was this way. You may also find that after she closes you, she is ready to get the F*** out of there and onto business.
Also in the times were there isn’t a strong closing on my part. When I wasn’t too pushy (I never am) I have had them practically hunt me down or call me in an hour or less (after I am already sleeping).
This is not just from my personal experience but I have also observed many situations where a guy who is having fun at the clubs dancing with various people will get closed by various chicks. They sometimes will come up to you and say they are leaving but they are hesitating before leaving, if you were too aggressive (all over them) they may be trying to shake you off instead of get you home.
The aggressiveness factor I am talking about here is only for closing. When it comes time to dance and have fun be aggressive, don’t ask for permission to dance with her. The exception is if you already know her or you have actually talked a little. What I mean is don’t pull a chick standing on the sides that you have talked to already and expect her to dance without asking her. But if you are both already on the dance floor by all means dance with her and don’t ask permission, but if she leaves let her go and don’t follow.
