So, I am wondering about the use of these, boring to us...

How should one use these? LoL... Second date, After taking her to Tango lessons she dosen't know about yet?

Also, I know Sade is good music to make out and get her in the mood. Any other suggestions besides James Brown? LoL.

I have just been reading Cosmo to get the girls perspective and I feel ashamed of all the AFC's out there who don't know they are.

Is it sign of desperation? Or... a tactic for giving yourself a romantic like impression, for the life of the damn things anyway.

No flowers before 2 months.

As for music - what's wrong with music? Whenever is good. You just need to use the right type for the right time. Please don't use any romantic music on the second date!

GHOST

In my experience giving flowers is a bad idea unless you've definitely entered arelationship. It may seem like a good gesture, but to many girls if you give them flowers too soon, it looks like an AFC-ish 'cry for help' and scares them off. Happened to me after just two dates - believe me it wasn't long before the 'LJBF' line arrived.

Why buy her flowers? Not to seem cynical, but what reason can you possibly have? You want somethin you can both enjoy at this stage, so those Tango lessons are more than enough...

The only use I can see with flowers is special occasions, or say she ends up ill or in hospital after you've been together for a fair amount of time...

If she wants to decorate her house with plants / flowers etc then she'll do it herself...


As for music, there isn't one definitive thing to play.. it all depends on the music, while there are some classc 'settin the mood' songs if you get with a girl who is the biggest Godsmack fan and throw on Marvin Gaye, Maxwell, Babyface then she won't be greatly impressed...

Goin' by the mentions you made before tho' if you're lookin to play that kinda music then Maxwell's "Urban Hang Suite" is an amazing CD... Marvin Gaye comes to mind, as well as artists like Lionel Richie, Luther Vandross, R Kelly and a whole bunch more...