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Holy Sh*t, I'm being DJ'd by a Female DJ

darkmenace

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holy crap dude, I just realized I'm being DJ'ed bigtime by a girl I just started to kinda date. She's what I would call a female DJ (I kinda wrote about her in my previous post about female DJs in High School)

But anyway, I realized this today because this week she's been doing the aloofness thing I usually do. Because after our first date, she couldnt stop thinking about me (she told me). I acted aloof the week after the first date. That weekend she called me about 10 times, just cuz she was thinking about me. We went out the second time on Sunday.
Looks like I took the bait, now I'm hooked no doubt. Now shes the one acting aloof and indifferent, I just got off the phone with her a couple of hours ago and I'm just saying to myself "Holy sh*t, this girl is actually DJing me" and I just laughed to myself.

During the convo, she was acting the way I usually act when I act aloof, I still got in some of my usual c+f stuff in there, but she was acting like she didnt care much, she even said "your conceited, dont act like that" and I was like "oh really, why is that" and she goes "Im usually not too attracted to guys who are really conceited" and then I hit her back "Me conceited?NO please sweetie, thats such an understatement" and she just goes "just dont act like that" and she just giggles.
But anyway, my point is, I realized this Female DJ is DJing me a DJ, now I know the best thing to do is to just relax and lay back and do my thing, but jeez I'm loving this, no wonder girls love us DJs. LOL. Im not gonna be acting all sappy and AFC to her so soon, although my tongue slipped a bit at one point, when she said that she gets attached too quickly, I made the mistake of saying "yeah I got that problem too", after that I changed the subject real quick.

So any comments or tips on how to handle this beautiful situation. LOL.

Im seriously loving this, because all shes doing is stuff that I do, and I've never had a girl do it to me so well. Seriously, no wonder girls love us DJs. LOL. I mean shes doing everything a DJ should do, act aloof, c+f, shows shes doing other stuff. I can honestly now say, That girl will be my girlfriend. LOL
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Welcome to the real world where all females have a little DJ in them. But of course they can never be as good as some male DJs.
 

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I fail to see the problem. Just don't choke.
 
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Yeah, I think either most females have these skills naturally, or Cosmo and those magazines are filled with it.

Be carefuly, and thankful for the challenge. Great way to learn new things.
 

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Lucky!

When do you 'DJ' a girl? When you are interested, right? And she is Djing you, eh? Sit back, and enjoy the ride, because even though she is trying to act indifferent and dj, she's just showing you how interested she is, whipping out the DJ so she doesn't lose you. Lucky...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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