A lot of us on this broad believe that women--especially HB--know that they are hot and they have leverage over us...and to a large extent I think I agree.

But there is this alternative view, though, that women are often unsure of themselves, even attrative women sometimes think they are too fat, not beautiful enough...

Perhaps they don't have as much leverage over us as we thought? Perhaps we should approach them with more confidence because they may not think they are hot enough?

A personal experience: this tall hot blonde asked me on a date: why men like tiny, small women? I didn't quite know what to answer, because this HB looks great, and has long slender legs. Granted, she is tall, but I mean...the basic point is that she seems to think that men are into smaller women and not into tall girls like her....

Maybe this is a cause for us to be more confident about ourselves--these HB's are HB's in our eyes, but may not be HB's in their own eyes!

Thats very true!

And everyone has different tastes, i mean..i think alot of the girls my friends go crazy over aren't that special, maybe HB5-6. And when i had a HB9-10 they didn't think much of her at all!

But maybe my friends are just wierd

People are surprising!!! I am five feet tall.
When my six foot, tall dark and handsome ex asked me out, I was shocked. Turns out, he loves small women.
You would look at this guy and think that his type was average height, blonde, slim. I remember another time, I was at a party with a friend and this little five- six honey and I danced up a storm and spent the night flirting like crazy.(nothing happened I was taken at the time)
Anyway, on the way home I asked my friend why this guy was still single. Turns out all the girls think he's too short to date.
I've always had trouble feeling like a sexy desirable kinda gal. Sure, my boobs arrive five minutes before the rest of me does and I am on the right side of being very cute, but its the general ideal that a sexy woman is a tall, slim,blonde/brunette with perfect c-cup boobies that make most women think "what the f*** is this sex-god doing with me??" Solution-if you think she's hot, tell her.

I had an ex, who was very hot, like a high 9, swimsuit model good looking, but she didn't really know it, she was strange in that sense, turns out she had some self-esteem issues, ultimately that caused a lot of trouble, sad but true I had to treat her mean to keep her keen, it was messed up, I'd much prefer a level headed chick, HB's who don't know there HB's haven't got it all together in my experience.