“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Be the chaser or become the chasee?

Dave111

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was chatting to one of my mates in the pub and had been telling him of all my attemps at getting dates etc etc. He then pointed out to me that perhaps I was becoming desperate because I was asking so many girls out.

He said that he used to be like I am just now but that he realised that if he took his foot off the gas and just got on with things, not minding about girls, sex etc that eventually the girls come to you, rather than you going to them all the time.

is this a valid point that he made?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by htemorp
read the damn bible first.
which part
 

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Yes, he has a valid point. Don't put all your efforts in trying to get anyone girl. If anything, spread yourself thin and concentrate mainly on improving yourself. Remember, you and your loved ones come first and foremost. The women are just the icing on the cake for whatever achievments that come your way. That is my philosophy and it seems to work.

The more your mind is off women and on other things, the more attractive you become. If you have the attitude that women are your main focus then you will give off an aire of desperation that women can smell a mile away.
 

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"The more your mind is off women and on other things, the more attractive you become. If you have the attitude that women are your main focus then you will give off an aire of desperation that women can smell a mile away. [/B][/QUOTE] "

This helps, man. Appreciated.
 
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