This girl I am dating frequents my two favorite clubs quite often. She is really into me so I don't want to piss her off by hittin on women and grinding with other women. My boys want to go and I know she will be there. Should I just find another club to go to, or could I possibly increase her IL with this type of behavior? Thanks.
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Going to the same club the girl you are dating is going to...
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Is she going to be grinding with other men, and responding when they hit on her? If she's going to be turning them down because she's with you, then she needs to express to you that she will, and that she wants you to do the same. Until she does, then you assume that she's still open to other guys, and you shouldn't worry about grinding with other girls.
That being said, I wouldn't be too obvious with other girls by kissing them in front of her or anything. Dancing is definitely not a problem, and neither is talking to them. Until she states otherwise, I would assume she's going to clubs for the same reason you're still going to clubs... to have fun and meet people of the opposite sex.
That being said, I wouldn't be too obvious with other girls by kissing them in front of her or anything. Dancing is definitely not a problem, and neither is talking to them. Until she states otherwise, I would assume she's going to clubs for the same reason you're still going to clubs... to have fun and meet people of the opposite sex.
Man, I'm in the exact same predicament. And to make matters worse my the friend I usually go with will get pissed if I suggest hitting a different club.
I'm still at the point where I have her guessing about whether or not I'm into her, but I don't think it would be cool to let her see some other chick rubbing up on me.
At the same time I hate being stuck to her the entire time I'm there...that's not cool, might as well be sitting home with a cold one watching Mad TV.
What to do, what to do....
I'm still at the point where I have her guessing about whether or not I'm into her, but I don't think it would be cool to let her see some other chick rubbing up on me.
At the same time I hate being stuck to her the entire time I'm there...that's not cool, might as well be sitting home with a cold one watching Mad TV.
What to do, what to do....
drixsa
Master Don Juan
dance with who ever you want
grind, have a good time
she really can have no reason to be mad at you
but know that shell be doing the same thing, that would bother me, knowin some deushe bag is all up on her, crotchs rubbin, yet she isnt doin anyting wrong. well thats our society
but as long as neither of you cheat you cannot be mad
i could see where you gettin her all jealous would be good, but never show your emotions fellas.
id say that if you see her, go up say hello, yada yada, maybe even dance with her once, then leave.
b/c your friend needs you for a minute
and let her come and get you. thats what your G-F should DO.
this is why i never do that whole dating, 1on1 thing, i dont like to worry bout this sh!t.
grind, have a good time
she really can have no reason to be mad at you
but know that shell be doing the same thing, that would bother me, knowin some deushe bag is all up on her, crotchs rubbin, yet she isnt doin anyting wrong. well thats our society
but as long as neither of you cheat you cannot be mad
i could see where you gettin her all jealous would be good, but never show your emotions fellas.
id say that if you see her, go up say hello, yada yada, maybe even dance with her once, then leave.
b/c your friend needs you for a minute
and let her come and get you. thats what your G-F should DO.
this is why i never do that whole dating, 1on1 thing, i dont like to worry bout this sh!t.
Captain Anonymous
Don Juan
If you and her end up at the same club together at the same time, whether or not either you or her have any right to get angry, it will only spell trouble.
I wouldn't go unless I knew she wasn't going to be there.
Jealousy is a powerful emotion.
I wouldn't go unless I knew she wasn't going to be there.
Jealousy is a powerful emotion.