Maybe you will be able to sleep with the next 5 hb's you see and maybe those 5 hb's will all be depressed and deranged so you won't be lucky

The non confident guy is deeply perturbed when he receives a negative response at the time he tries to exhibit DJ qualities.

Confidence is not about knowing success will happen (that's ESP), it's about not fearing mistakes. It's about realizing no one is perfect so obtaining imperfect results is no big deal.

Confidence = attempting to do something spectacular and being at ease with the idea of failure occurring = safety net

So in order for there to be total security while DJ'ing, you have to adopt the mindset of learning from your mistakes. You have to exercise skill above a safety net.

To sum up the post in one sentence:

Originally posted by DjDreamer
Confidence = attempting to do something spectacular and being at ease with the idea of failure occurring = safety net

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Good post, btw, failure is part of life and is accepted everywhere, what isn't accepted is the inability to try again