As a DJ in learning there is ANOTHER (besides the 138327 other ¨rules¨ as apercent purely for you, not for you to get girls. Ironically, when you develop this skill, it will attract women. What is this about? Ok, ill give you some clues… lets see if you can guess.
As a DJ you are taught to approach every woman you wish to, in less than 3 seconds. So, suppose you are at,, some gathering of people, think of one. And, well, you see this attractive lady, and you approach her.
DJ- hi!
HB- hi!
DJ- yadayada wlootnisheew
HB- yogui snip croopley
Etc, etc.
So, it went well, and you leave. Great! First victory, in a while you will approach her again, but meanwhile, you will keep doing something (whatever, but something, do something). In some 10 minutes, you see another attractive lady, great! So you go, and approach her.
DJ- hi!
Uglie- (rolls eyes, sees you and then turns –expressionless, sees you and expresses repulsion to you,,etc)
DJ- (What to do will be explained below)
Before you continue reading, think about what you should do, take your time.
(thinking time!)
Ok, too much thinking for you
To answer this, I will ask you three important questions, one that is indispensable (I will explain more about these 3 questions in What, how, why? ). What is it you will do? You maybe will get angry, and yell at her because she was so rude. Maybe, you imitate her, and try to get her see you are even ruder. Maybe you will tell her off, politely and calmly. How could you do this? Angrily, rudely, and politely and calmly. And, why would you do this? Because you want her to see you are important and she must have respect towards you, because you wont take any of her bull$%!!?, because she must know it is not appropriate? Think about it, WHY will you do this? Answer =You must do it because it is the best option for you.
You must ignore her, totally, don’t listen to her, turn around, some will advice you to , in some way, talk to her, not in an insulting tone, but to do something about it. I don’t. Don’t talk to her, ever again. I would never do that, what she did, to anyone, if I am in an explosive mood, I simply don’t get out of home, whatever, but I never react like that, to anyone, because I have joy in my life. And because you also have joy in your life, you will ignore her. Why on earth will you want to have something to do with her? She is a despiteful person, you have nothing to do with her. There are millions, millions of women out there waiting for you to get into their lives, waiting to open their doors of their hearts. Think about this for once, so next time you face with this, you know why you are IMMEDIATELY disconnecting from her. Suppose you use your DJ tactics to seduce her with time, you get attached to her, and know she wont escape from your ferocious claws. With time, she falls to you, and you get in a relationship with her. In all this time, her bad mood will persist, she will complain, complain and yell. I have no doubt in my mind that at times she will behave like a doll, beautifully, but in no more than 5 hours her mood will change to natural (bad, despiteful mood). And, suppose you are stupid (yes! S-T-U-P-I-D) enough to get married to her, and spend your entire life, or some years, with her. She will probably get a divorce and take your money, or will eat out of your money, all this time complaining, complaining, complaining again, and yelling. So lets go years back to this moment, when she is rejecting you in a very disrespectful way. You can go on and haunt her until she is yours, or you can IMMEDIATELY detach, disconnect from her. Turn the other way round, erase her from your mind, never think about her again.
In one hand, you have HB, who is pleasant to talk to, and smiley. In the other hand, ugly who is a witch. It is logical to go to HB. And HB represent MILLIONS of women who are waiting for you, are starving for a touch, a kiss from you. Why should you ever think about UG again?
This applies to all type of situations, not only for the given example. It applies to any situation in which she disrespects you.
So, what is it you do in this situation? You do this:
DJ- hi!
Uglie- (rolls eyes, sees you and then turns –expressionless, sees you and expresses repulsion to you,,etc)
DJ- (What to do is explained above) . . .
You say nothing. You walk away.
I will quote David DeAngelo:
As a DJ you are taught to approach every woman you wish to, in less than 3 seconds. So, suppose you are at,, some gathering of people, think of one. And, well, you see this attractive lady, and you approach her.
DJ- hi!
HB- hi!
DJ- yadayada wlootnisheew
HB- yogui snip croopley
Etc, etc.
So, it went well, and you leave. Great! First victory, in a while you will approach her again, but meanwhile, you will keep doing something (whatever, but something, do something). In some 10 minutes, you see another attractive lady, great! So you go, and approach her.
DJ- hi!
Uglie- (rolls eyes, sees you and then turns –expressionless, sees you and expresses repulsion to you,,etc)
DJ- (What to do will be explained below)
Before you continue reading, think about what you should do, take your time.
(thinking time!)
Ok, too much thinking for you
To answer this, I will ask you three important questions, one that is indispensable (I will explain more about these 3 questions in What, how, why? ). What is it you will do? You maybe will get angry, and yell at her because she was so rude. Maybe, you imitate her, and try to get her see you are even ruder. Maybe you will tell her off, politely and calmly. How could you do this? Angrily, rudely, and politely and calmly. And, why would you do this? Because you want her to see you are important and she must have respect towards you, because you wont take any of her bull$%!!?, because she must know it is not appropriate? Think about it, WHY will you do this? Answer =You must do it because it is the best option for you.
You must ignore her, totally, don’t listen to her, turn around, some will advice you to , in some way, talk to her, not in an insulting tone, but to do something about it. I don’t. Don’t talk to her, ever again. I would never do that, what she did, to anyone, if I am in an explosive mood, I simply don’t get out of home, whatever, but I never react like that, to anyone, because I have joy in my life. And because you also have joy in your life, you will ignore her. Why on earth will you want to have something to do with her? She is a despiteful person, you have nothing to do with her. There are millions, millions of women out there waiting for you to get into their lives, waiting to open their doors of their hearts. Think about this for once, so next time you face with this, you know why you are IMMEDIATELY disconnecting from her. Suppose you use your DJ tactics to seduce her with time, you get attached to her, and know she wont escape from your ferocious claws. With time, she falls to you, and you get in a relationship with her. In all this time, her bad mood will persist, she will complain, complain and yell. I have no doubt in my mind that at times she will behave like a doll, beautifully, but in no more than 5 hours her mood will change to natural (bad, despiteful mood). And, suppose you are stupid (yes! S-T-U-P-I-D) enough to get married to her, and spend your entire life, or some years, with her. She will probably get a divorce and take your money, or will eat out of your money, all this time complaining, complaining, complaining again, and yelling. So lets go years back to this moment, when she is rejecting you in a very disrespectful way. You can go on and haunt her until she is yours, or you can IMMEDIATELY detach, disconnect from her. Turn the other way round, erase her from your mind, never think about her again.
In one hand, you have HB, who is pleasant to talk to, and smiley. In the other hand, ugly who is a witch. It is logical to go to HB. And HB represent MILLIONS of women who are waiting for you, are starving for a touch, a kiss from you. Why should you ever think about UG again?
This applies to all type of situations, not only for the given example. It applies to any situation in which she disrespects you.
So, what is it you do in this situation? You do this:
DJ- hi!
Uglie- (rolls eyes, sees you and then turns –expressionless, sees you and expresses repulsion to you,,etc)
DJ- (What to do is explained above) . . .
You say nothing. You walk away.
I will quote David DeAngelo:
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