“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've recently experienced a phenomena that is disturbing to me. I would meet a girl, who happens to have a BF, and she would show no IL during initial contact. Say her BF happens to be a friend of mine and he enjoys a certain degree of popularity. When the aforementioned HB discovers later that I'm his friend, she acts interested IN ME. I've observed this in two seperate occaisions. My instinct tells me to keep away from h0s like these since they have no scruples to break up friendships IN ADDITION to cheating.
What is up with this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you find it uncomfortable, tell her to knock it off. Probably trying to figure out the grade of her manmeat.
 
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Originally posted by AnOlderMan
She's doing this to make him jealous.
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That would make sense if he was around.
 
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not neccesairly. If she only did it when he was around then you would know immediately what was going down. This way she baits you enough so that she can test her hombre. Try hitting on her and see what happens. She'll give you a negative response. If not a flat turn down.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by trajhenkhet
Try hitting on her and see what happens.
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Don't try this, she might tell your buddy. ;)

She is most definitely doing this to make him jealous. Since your friend is popular, he probably always has a few women chasing him. SO she's using you to show him that he's replacible, and worse, that she might even leave with his friends. Kind of evil, now that I think about it... :D
Don't let her use you.
 
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