“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Neck in the woods dating (mostly rant)

OleRyder

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OK, folks, what do you make out of this: I work for a research field station in a small (I mean, _small_) resort town, 30 miles from the nearest (what passes for a) city. Being such, the female population is either (i) over 40; (ii) under 18 or (iii) out of town. Perfect for ONS, but any relationship I may try to start in the city would, by definition, be long distance... and I hate it! What do you all think about the situation? Oh, and don't bother telling me to move to the city - I'm doing it by the end of summer already.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

payaya

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comon your telling me there is not one girl in at your age level? Got to be joking!
 

OleRyder

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Population under 2000, and the only *decent* employer is that field station - so nobody career-oriented would stay. Yes, there was that lady at work that I had to next last week, but that's the only new person in town over a few months. Oh-wow, guess I'll have to resign to dating around until I move into the city...
 

payaya

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why do you want a relationship then if your moving in the summer? waste of time i tell ya.
 

OleRyder

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I'm moving 30 lousy miles, to the "city" I go clubbing at.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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