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would you ask a girl out who you know may be interested in someone else

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Guys,

So one of my female friends told me that the girl i am interested in is most likely interested in someone.....although they are not dating. Would you still go ahead and try to ask her out or is that just a stupid move? I figure....better to try than not to try.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Depends

Depends upon how much she's into him and how attracted she is to you.
 
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Go ahead. Almost everyone is interested in at least one person, especially when they are in a relationship or single. That doesn't mean another person cannot hold her interest as well.
 
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I have to much pride. To me, it's like coming in second place.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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You can only come is 2nd place if the race is over. It hasn't even begun. You actually have a chance of finishing first.
How many times have you been interested in someone while someone else came along and actually became your woman or intimate friend?
 
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:)
 
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Originally posted by Frosty
You can only come is 2nd place if the race is over. It hasn't even begun. You actually have a chance of finishing first.
How many times have you been interested in someone while someone else came along and actually became your woman or intimate friend?
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But she's seen him, she knows who he is. He can persue, but she will only give in to him when the situation with the other guy doens't materialize. If it does, she'll eventually phase him out of her life.
 
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I thought like Mr Perfect until I heard what Frosty said.
But then there will always be that little bit of doubt into my mind that if the other dude gives her a chance then she will go running 2 him.

This just looks like an opportunity to get hurt, seems like one-itis. JUst move on to someone else, and if you do still find her attractive as a person, then try and run some dj'ing skills on her, but don't come out and say "hey, I like you" or she will have full control of the situation and although she likes that, she can't handle the power, only a man can;)
 

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This is going to be tough to let her know I like her without me actually saying it. Any suggestions on how to pursue?
 
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errrr... Is it not possible to make her like you more then him?

I think some of you should understand that a girl have a crush on someone else does not mean she can't get one on you too. Girls are capable of many crushes at once, even while dating, just like we are. If a girl has a crush on a man and it's big and he's all she can think about, then yeah spare yourself. But if it's just a normal one, then **** go for it.

If a girl had a crush on you and found out you had a crush on this girl, would you automatically cross her out just because you have a crush on someone else?
 
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This is going to be tough to let her know I like her without me actually saying it. Any suggestions on how to pursue?
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What say you actually say it then?

There's dozens of ways to do it without putting her on the spot.

Also if you want to you have a great opportunity to run all the SS / C+F in the world on her until you feel you're in a better position to Bart her world then bust a move.

Also , never rely on the advice of women. They have shifty eyes the lot of 'em.
 
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ill go for it, if she is interested in someone, doesnt mean she wont go for someone else.

I would rather have a girl reject me, than wonder for the rest of my life if she would go out with you.

If she does say no, at least you know you dont have to waste anymore time on her, get in your mind its her loss! :)
 
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a good way of asking woman out on a date, is to get her into your comfort zone, dont pop the question cold turkey. Start talking about coffee or something, how you love going to cafes and stuff, ask her if she likes going out for a casual coffee etc. Then confidently ask her we should go out for coffee one day. If she say yes then go for it, but if she says no, downplay that you asked her on a date by saying what suits the situation the best.
 
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Originally posted by MR_PERFECT
I have to much pride. To me, it's like coming in second place.
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But if you don't ask...you'll come in last place, every time.
 
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Originally posted by dontmindme
But if you don't ask...you'll come in last place, every time.
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also i sign of submission, basically admitting to yourself, the other guy is better. Nothing wrong with a little fight! But if you find him in a clear higher legue than you forget bout it :)
 
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Do you know what the guy looks like? If she is hot and you are as good looking as the guy she has a crush on. I'd say go for it, crushes are based on physical attraction, and a woman can get distracted by another guy if she thinks that this infatuation will lead nowhere. Otherwise if you are not as hot as the guy is, don't bother. It won't be easy for her to shed the crush and maybe get tempted to stray. However if you are equally good looking as the girl but not as the guy, go for it. The guy might be out of her league or just not interested.
 
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