OK...say you're trying to work with this HB...one of the ones who guys always fall all over. Like the DJ, you're remaining mysterious and confident, not showering her with compliments, not letting her know exactly how much you're into her.

Say you happen to be in a conversation with "the guys" and the topic turns to how hot this girl is (you know, just the usual, "damn she has a fine ass" kind of stuff) and she overhears.

Now she knows you're sweating her appearance...something that you don't necessarily want to tip to HBs...how do you recover?

My thoughts are, "F it, she's hot enough that she's been told that enough times. There's nothing wrong with me being attracted to her physically, and if she doesn't like it, then F her too." I can't see trying to play it off like a joke or being apologetic or anything.

If I've played right, she already knows that I think she's attractive, so there's no point in trying to hide it, as long as I don't sit there and compliment her directly.

What do you think?

just keep it cool, carry on the DJ mystery and if she ever confronts you with it, say it's true. but don't elaborate, cause she'll probably expect more compliments

It doesn't matter. It just shows your sexuality; nothing you should be afraid of. You should be confident telling the girl to her face that you think she has a nice ass (not in a supplicating manner, of course). You should be able to admit to her that you find other girls hot as well. There's no problem for you here. The only problem is that you are unsure of yourself and your sexuality. Don't be.

I would probably say something like, "Yeah, I said you have a nice ass, but that doesn't mean you're not a real bytch..." Or maybe not "bytch", but something like that.