I attract some girls, not alot. But when i do get a date, most of girls seems to loose interest after 1 or 2 dates and we ended up not going out or not talk to eachother ever again. I think it has alot to with my boring personality, which means i have no game whatsoever when it comes to women. I consider myself fairly decent looking and I know for fact that if i can figure this out, i can pull decent amount of women. My friend keeps telling me i have no game w/chicks. What exactly is game? How do i appear more smooth?

go to sosuave.com and start reading...

read the DJ Bible...it looks like you're registered back in FEB...but it doesnt seem like you've read the DJB.

what is game? what attracts a woman to you? Confidence, attitude, challenge. WIth the first two, it seems like you have to work on these a lil.

Oh F*ck me...just read the DJB. I could say a million and one things..just read the DJB.

-HQ

i have a feeling that your not aggressive enough. Did u try to kiss close or bed them on those dates? or u were being nice and showing them that your a gentleman?

i gotta add to my original post..in the interm, while you read the DJB, you HAVE TO KILL that negative self talk.

'i have no game, i always lose the girl after 2 dates, i'm not smooth, i have a boring personality' ...its ok to realize what you have to change..but..after you point it out...GET IT OUT OF YOUR MIND NOW!!! if you dont, you'll be having an internal conversation with yourself all day..everyday..putting yourself down. its not healthy. about your friend putting you down...screw him...get away from that neg crap..your attitude and confidence will come when you start thinking positive..as cliche as that sounds.

-HQ

Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
i gotta add to my original post..in the interm, while you read the DJB, you HAVE TO KILL that negative self talk.

'i have no game, i always lose the girl after 2 dates, i'm not smooth, i have a boring personality' ...its ok to realize what you have to change..but..after you point it out...GET IT OUT OF YOUR MIND NOW!!! if you dont, you'll be having an internal conversation with yourself all day..everyday..putting yourself down. its not healthy. about your friend putting you down...screw him...get away from that neg crap..your attitude and confidence will come when you start thinking positive..as cliche as that sounds.

-HQ

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Hey..thanks. I don't think about how boring i am when i'm on a date. I used to be real shy around girls, but ever since i started coming to this site, i've changed alot. But i'm still having trouble with how to talk with chicks till this day. My buddy (natural DJ)says you gotta know how to talk - you have to tell them *what they want to hear*. He's a real smooth talker, i guess that comes natural for him. But i'm way lost in this department. Just how to keep conversation interesting when you on a date or with a girl?