It has been said that making a female feel good about themself will make them really like you. So how should a man go about making her feel special? Maybee make a few compliments? Or What?

Any input would be appreciated.

Compliments are always nice, but only when exercised with moderation and sincerity.

Other than that, rather than telling her something that makes her feel good, show her a good time and that will mean much more than words. The key to making a woman feel special is a gesture uniquely shared by the two of you. Such is the very essence of romance itself.

A night spent dancing in the moonlight, an orchid for guy Fawkes day, or even a shared movie night when you make time to be with her especially. Once all I did was toss her a bag of heart shaped dove chocolates passing between classes. But try to rerserve any deeper gestures until after you've been in a relationship for a while, otherwise it lacks credibility and sends the exact opposite message.

-CyranoDeBergerac

Read the Bible - there's alot on that.

Just compliment them N don't be an ******* when u are around them, make them laugh - be 'fun'.

As for compliments - try to keep them to a minimum and tyr not compliment'N them on their body. It's not a problem but compliment'N them in skills or knowledge is MUCH better.

Somehow I really don't like this post.

Ok--sure--people who are charismatic or establish rapport will often acknowledge and "make" people around them feel good, and people will like them as a result.

So there is validity to this question.

But what I hear here is something of a technique that says, in essense, "if I learn to manipulate women to feel good about themselves, then any woman I target will like me when I do >this< (insert "compliment" etc...)

I will accept that I may be way over-reading into this---

...but if a woman doesn't feel good about herself, why would you want her around??? Low self-esteem is so unattractive and a primary red flag for unacceptable candidates.

And if a woman (or anyone) doesn't feel good about herself, how is it your problem to fix--??? This is her issue and requires her initiative. A good many people actually use low self-esteem to get you to feel sorry for them and take care of things for them--where you make their problem your problem thru a sense of obligation or guilt or the shining-white-knight complex.

If you want to improve your social skills--that's one thing. If you want to be a personal jesvs-chryst for the emotional cripples around you--that's another.