“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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my girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months now and when i told her i got her a suprise for her birthday she said "oh, oh.... i get nervous about suprises"

also, i think she is afraid to move to the next level in our relationship (which includes alot of sex and alot of bonding time) because she is afraid of being hurt.

So my question is, how do i have her feel she can trust me so that we can move to that next level?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe it's just me, but what's the next level? Marriage?
 
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well, i mean taking the relationship a step further...

the level before getting engaged...
 
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she really should trust you by now...it's been 8 months. just ask her directly why she is afraid of surprises. ask her if she honestly trusts you, just have a frank discussion. you need to have these issues out of the way before you can move on to the next level.
 
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I don't think of it like levels. It's just a gradual incline. You don't just one day move in with each other do you? No, you start hanging out a lot. She comes over more and more, then one day it's like, what the h3ll? Don't think of it like levels, just go with the flo. If you want to see her more do it. But don't make a drastic change on her. She'll probably freak out. they all do.
 
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